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can't be 'polite' and good any longer....

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swallowedAfly · 29/09/2013 18:09

ds goes to a village primary with all the subsequent over-reliance on parents wealth, education, time, etc. re: assuming sahms are the norm, money is plentiful for fanciful trips and activities, we all know how to sew up costumes at the drop of a hat etc.

that's fine. i chose to live here. however....

homework is way over the top in terms of quantity and right from day one of school. one part of homework (there is loads) is the 'learning log' which is pretended to be something children could do indepndently and consolidates learning. except in reality it is not, by a long shot.

i've put up with it and put up with and felt enslaven to doing it until today when i've had enough. this week for ds (6yo and one of the most able in his year) it says, "show me what you've learned about number bonds up to 20 and what patterns you can see". then there's a blank page.

i don't know why (because this is far from the worst that's come home) but today i've had enough and found myself writing on the page that i have no idea what the learning objective is, what outcomes they're hoping for or how the hell they see this as differentiated. i've also asked how they think a parent with numeracy or literacy problems would tackle this task and whether they would actually set this as a task in class to 6yos and expect a meaningful outcome.

there is no context, no structure, no literacy support, no prompts nothing. same as ever. sometimes the tasks don't even relate to anything they've been learning.

am i totally unreasonable or would you after a year or so be fed up too? i am (if it's not obvious) an ex teacher and i know what education is supposed to be about and this is not it. homework should be meaningful. how could a 6yo read that question and face a blank page and do something a teacher could look at and assess to see what they've learnt? they couldn't.

on top of this learning log (given on a friday and expected in by tuesday) daily reading and signing of reading book is expected plus other bits and bobs. he's 6! he's been getting this since 5 at a point where some kids couldn't even write let alone face a blank page and an open ended task and produce something yet they'd get in trouble if they didn't. this is just a test of parents surely? and an unfair one given it assumes knowledge and literacy that some parents won't have?

sorry for long random rant but help! i'm not playing this game anymore and i'm ready to speak up. it's a joke.

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swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:43

single parent with a disability and job here btw if we're comparing badges.

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swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:44

you may mock bramble but did you know teachers ride little bicycles all night to generate the electricity for the day ahead?

you think they had it hard in the mines you want to try teaching for 5hrs a day in a middle class village primary school.

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NewNameforNewTerm · 06/10/2013 18:45

Many children truly believe that brambleandapple, as opposed to the view that we only work 9.00 - 3.00 of others.

swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:45

you think writing strategic plans for organisations of 10k plus people is hard? try marking 30 x 3 sentences of 6yos literacy work a week!

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brambleandapple · 06/10/2013 18:45
Grin
mrz · 06/10/2013 18:46

not a teacher bashing thread ...really! Grin

swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:46

and ONLY getting 13wks holiday a year!!! and ACTUALLY having to do some planning in that time!

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swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:47

try arranging childcare around 39weeks a year of school time only - it's a nightmare i tell you.

you people on real world working contracts don't know you're born!

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NewNameforNewTerm · 06/10/2013 18:48

" try marking 30 x 3 sentences of 6yos literacy work a week!" I promise I make my 6 year olds write far more than that each day ...

brambleandapple · 06/10/2013 18:49

More like boxing match mrz

swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:49

NOT a teacher bashing thread but haway! welcome to reality and bear in mind you're not talking to naive wee children but grown adults who also work and bear responsibilities.

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mrz · 06/10/2013 18:52

do you not think teachers organised childcare swallowedAfly ...or that their child's school might not have the same inset days or that their child's school is closed for elections while their own school remains open or all the other issues that ALL parents face

swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:52

i'm gonna be singing 'it's a hard knock life for us' at random all day at work tomorrow.

i think i may even have to do some teaching tomorrow as well as finishing off writing a whole staff training day and completing my latest funding bid for half the money i earnt as a teacher - poor ickle me Grin

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noblegiraffe · 06/10/2013 18:52

If teaching is such a piece of piss, why did you leave?

swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:53

most parents face them for at least 13 weeks more a year mrz and several hours more per day.

are you never blessed?

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spanieleyes · 06/10/2013 18:53

And yes, we cleaned the school, including the toilets and drains last week because the cleaner was ill.
( and having returned on Friday night from a school residential I have risen at dawn and slept ( if you can call it that!) for 2 hours a night for the past few days!)
Life's hard I tell you, life's hard Grin

swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:53

cos of you miserable moaning fuckers Wink

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swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:54

and the desire to change the culture of it all - which meant moving on.

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swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:55

agreed - life is HARD. for most of us. but chin up things could be worse.

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swallowedAfly · 06/10/2013 18:55

you could have to work a full working day 48wks a year for less money and with less sickness, maternity and pension rights.

it's not all bad ffs.

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mrz · 06/10/2013 18:56

back to the OP Wink

mrz · 06/10/2013 18:58

chips anyone ...

spanieleyes · 06/10/2013 19:02

I work 7 til 5, earn just about as much after 10 years teaching as I did on leaving my previous occupation and have roughly similar working conditions. I do get technically 6 weeks more holiday but never had to work in my holidays or at weekends. I could accrue flexitime and take my holiday when I wanted ( within reason!) Swings and roundabouts.

Mytholmroyd · 06/10/2013 19:07

Blimey! Boxing match indeed!

DD2 is planning to be a primary school teacher when she finishes her degree. She says it was the best days of her life and she was so happy there (And it was a wonderful school). When she picks up her brother she gazes wistfully across the playground and sighs.

Little does she know! But I shall not dash her dreamsHmm

NewNameforNewTerm · 06/10/2013 19:09

At least I could return to work part time after my last baby. Even if I had lots of parents moaning in the playground and to the headteacher about job-share teachers.