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French school or not?

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shubiedoo · 28/09/2013 02:08

I'm in Canada, of course our school system is different than in the UK, and I realize I'm really lucky to be in the position of choosing between two really good schools.

My two boys are enrolled in the local school round the corner. I have no real issues with the school, it is very good. My daughter will start next September. I know a lot of the children who would normally be in her class from preschool etc.

BUT. We are also quite friendly with neighbours in our road. They speak French at home, and their two girls go to the French school. Normally we would not be eligible for this, because we don't speak French as a family, and I don't have any French heritage (lots of parents are not French speaking, but do have French grandparents or some other family connection.) I did all my schooling in French though and am fluent.

They have suggested my daughter go to the school too. They would put in a good word for me, and I feel I could handle meetings, admin, etc. Children who don't already speak the language do a sort of immersion program for two years, and then go in with the other French speaking children the following year. If it doesn't work out, of course she can always enrol in the local school later on.

I love the idea of her having bilingual education, but I wonder if this is really best for her, or am I just liking the idea of getting her into something other people don't have the chance to do? And will she be too tied to these two particular friends, going on the bus with them etc?

She is very bright and I feel she could handle the program. She doesn't have a strong preference for either school; I do volunteer at her brothers' school, but sometimes I pick up the girls at the French one too, she's familiar with both.

This is way longer than I thought... thanks for reading this far! Any thoughts much appreciated.

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bonjourlondon · 28/09/2013 07:10

Hello Shubie,
I understand, some decisions are difficult to make because we hesitate between 2 excellent choices...
To answer your question, I would pesonnally give my child the opportunity to open to the world even more than now, by letting her go to French school. The academic isn't in question, but bilingualism is an amazing asset not just professionnally, it opens the mind to another way of thinking, feeling, understanding and increases hugely ability to deal with people and life, that's my honest opinion having experienced it for myself and my child.
Good luck, whatever you'll decide will be good anyway.

BikeRunSki · 28/09/2013 07:31

I went to the French Lycee in London, despite being English. If you can handle the practicalities of children at different schools, I would take the opportunity.

Kahu · 28/09/2013 07:34

My DD has just started in french immersion K. We're only a few weeks in but I'm happy with our choice.

Some thoughts: once you commit to french immersion, stay commited. She will likely be "behind" other non-immersion kids her age but will "catch up". Eg in our school pupils focus only on learning french vocab. in their K year, they start to learn to read in G1 & won't learn to read english until G3 or 4. So effectively if we were to pull her out of the french program she could be a few years behind her peers. But my feeling is, children are capable of a lot more than we think so this doesn't really bother me. However I know it worries friends whose DC have also just started french immersion K.

If you want to learn french in Canada as an anglophone (& like me, you sound like a francophile who would love her children to speak french) then really french immersion is the only way. From my understanding regular high school french classes are very basic.

Be prepared to help out. Her english reading & writing skills will suffer initially (especially if you are considering francophone school vs french immersion where as they progress through school they do some lessons in english) so you will have to have time to read with her, give her opportunities to develop written english language skills etc.

My advice? If you love the school & you think your DD could handle it then go for it!

shubiedoo · 29/09/2013 05:10

Thanks everyone! I am leaning toward the French school; there's no question it will be so great for her.
I guess it's just a bit strange for me, I know the boys' school, teachers, admin so well, it will be a learning curve to start again, in my second language.
I did immersion myself as a child, my parents didn't, indeed couldn't, help me much at all. I am in a better position to support my daughter, good point Kahu.

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