I've heard that the school that we had wanted (DD started YR last fall, so heading into Y1 this Sept) "runs its own waiting list" and that friend-of-friend's child got in, though they were originally approximately where we are on the LEA waiting list. We are now apparently 18th. There's no way they live that much closer than we do. My friend suggested that if we decide we want a place, we should go and visit the school, meet the Head, etc, as they essentially have discretionary control over the waiting list and it's London so there is movement in and out of the school. When someone leaves, he said that offers are not made in order of distance by the LEA but by the school.
We thought we had to just wait, and meanwhile DD has had a really good year at the school she's in. But this threw me a little! Does anyone know how waiting lists are handled, who by, and whether there are "back doors" like this?