Hello. My (just)5yo DS has just transferred schools due to a move. Had a brief chat with his new teacher this morning and, just as I suspected he is very behind on his reading/sounds. He is at the level the nursery class are at - or actually somewhat behind.
We (his new teacher and I) have discussed a way forward and am happy this will be addressed. So his needs/education will be met - or certainly some action taken.
But what should I do about his previous school/reception class/teacher? I continually raised (polite) concerns with his old teacher about his reading/sound/letters knowledge. I explained to his teacher that when we read at home I would either get book refusal, or he would appear to more often than now have very poor retention of the sounds. Very occasionally he would appear to "get it". His teacher said children were very different in class to at home and not to worry. She just kept repeating "He is doing fine" "He is at "expected" levels". When faced with that what more can you do to address it in school? His teacher did also say she HAD to use the new reading system called "Sounds Writes" which did not work as well as Jolly Phonics - but her hands were tied. She had no choice.
(BTW We have tried to make up the shortfall at home - reading, frequent word lists, playing word games. His letter formation is very good. He seems interested in letters. But seems to baulk at reading. The teacher said to not push it at home in case it made him totally turn off. So we haven't. My DD is an exceptional reader so it is not a case of us not caring/wanting to put the effort in)
Anyway - sorry for waffle - just trying to say we have done what we can, but I feel we have been misled by his old teacher. He was not really doing fine. This new system has not worked.
I have several (some close) friends with children in the old reception class. So my (at last) question is - should I say something? To my friends? To the old head teacher? To the old reception teacher.
If so what and to whom? How do I broach it without offending anyone?
If not - why not and how do I square my discomfort/guilt at potentially leaving some of his old classmates (and next year's reception) to a similar fate of a reading system that does not work?)
Another BTW - apart from this very happy with the old school - purely moved for location reasons.