Thanks for all of your replies.
Doctrine, yes both DC's are already at school. DD currently Year 3 and DS Yr 6. So we are looking for Yr 4 and Yr 7 places.
Reading the letters online is good advice and probably helps to get the 'tone'.
I have spoken to the schools that are on my shortlist and they do have places, so that's good and means I still have a choice. But I'm just getting a little bit wobbly about it all before making a final application. Being the transition from primary to secondary is not easing my mind either, nerve-wracking before throwing in moving to an unknown area.
We have housing sorted, and an address, so I can make the application and I know the area we will be in. There are several Primary schools in the area ranging from largish {300+ pupils} to smaller country schools. As she is in a small country school atm I am leaning toward that option but they all appear to be faith schools.
Contacting the PTA is another good idea.
As far as visiting goes, that would be the ideal option I know. But it is not without difficulty. DH working and with only one car makes the school run difficult on a school day, and if it's not a school day....well rather defeats the purpose. I will have to see if I can juggle something to get up there.
Savoy, were you pleased with your choice one you saw it 'in the flesh'. Did your online impression match up with reality?
Thanks for the advice 