Its due to an influx or new families, we are 2nd on waiting list. I know of a family who have rejected their place but a new familt have moved in closer who will get that place on 2nd round.
the minibus is a problem as there is no chaperone as its to a mainstream school and my son can have sudden raging meltdowns if the slightest thing doesn't go as he expected. They are difficult for me to predict let alone a bus driver.
I went to the GP in October way before application deadline knowing something was wrong and querying dyspraxia, and its taken til now to get a referral to the right place (for poss aspergers), so it wasn't on the application. I went to pre school in Feb (after app deadline) queryting aspergers and they agreed, next day they had written a whole list of aspergers traits and ticked 6 out of 9 as applying to him. They strongly think its aspergers.
He is on the link inclusion scheme for children needing extra help with transition. He now has a Springboard (special needs local authority funded charity) who are observing him on Monday in pre school. He has been referred by pre school and link inclusion scheme for speech therapy.
he is Aug 23 born so very young in year which is why we are only at this stage in process with his condition.
The wait to see paediatrician is 6-12 months, so we are getting him seen privately to expedite a diagnosis.
Statement - Pre School think this is needed, Local authority said its a very high bar so unlikely. I may get a bit futher along with speech therapy, other profs and ask for statutory assesement??
My main concern is related to his aspergers traits - extremely controlling of his environment, lack of impulse control, very oppositional/defiant, behind with social/emotional devt, needs continuity. he took a long time to settle into village pre school and still does after holidays and has been in the village peer group since playgroups and is familiar with them/to them with his quirks. He has also managed to make some strong little friendships which is hard for a child with his needs. I feel it would be strongly disadvantaging for him to be split away from his peers and community.
We have been very unlucky, and I watched as more and more families moved in the last year. We are in the village, just the opposite end to the school.
I have a 1-2-1 booked with schoolappeals.com, good idea?
Any ideas? TIA