I've seen people on here saying that children shouldn't be doing structured learning in pre-school/reception and that it is all 'learning through play' these days under the EYFS. And that children 'should not' be learning phonics at this age.
I don't really get this. My DS (3.5) knows all his sounds, numbers, shapes but has never sat down at a table to 'learn' these. He is starting to learn to write out letters, spell his name and blend some of the easier sounds. He's learned these things while playing so far as I can tell (I certainly haven't set out to 'teach' him things and his nursery is - if anything - more play based than some others I've visited). For example he's been moving the letter magnets we have on the fridge around, to create different shapes, picking out the ones in his name and recently lining them all up into the order of the alphabet. He loves counting things out - up to quite high numbers. He loves working out what letters different things he sees when he is playing begin with.
So, is he being pushed? Or is he 'learning through play' in the 'right' way? Those people who don't think there should be any 'structured' learning at this stage, what sort of 'learning' do you think children should get in their play?