Hello,
I would welcome some advice on a situation at my DS' school. Small rural state primary, 120 kids divided into 5 classes. Class 1 and class 5 are single year classes, other classes are mixed year which I have no problem with at all, in fact that was always the case in the schools I attended. DS started in class 1 inSeptember and is very happy.
His year was a bulge year so instead of the normal intake of 20 they took 28 under pressure from the local authority. Obviously there is a question as to what happens next year as class 2 (currently all year 1s and the younger year 2s) will not be able to fit all the current class 1 kids in.
A friend of mine has recently been told by DS' teacher that the plan next year is to only take 20 new pupils, but keep back some of the current class 1 kids in class 1 for another year. It's not been said how they will be chosen, but obviously one way (and the way that they work out the other classes I.e. which year 2s go up into class 3) is by age. They do this as apparently deciding by ability just caused arguments with parents.
DS is a June birthday. He is also, on the basis of everything we've been told by school and preschool, very bright. Had his reading age assessed at 7 on entry to school (school did this themselves without any prompting from us) and he is now reading ORT level 12 fluently. He goes into a group of class 2 and 3 kids every day for literacy on the school's suggestion and is happy and doing well. He is a quiet thoughtful soul who isn't into the rough and tumble of the other boys in his class and generally finds adults easier to relate to than other children, although he is getting better and is good on a one to one level. He is very mature in his speech and the way he conducts himself and I think other children find this a bit odd - I should stress that he is perfectly happy, loves his school and teacher and we've not had a moment's anxiety since he started. He participates happily in all activities, but really does have a preference for structured learning - his literacy group is his favourite part of the day.
I am very concerned that if he is kept back in class 1 for another year it will be harmful to his education - he is more than ready to move onto more structured learning and will be bored with another year in class 1 even if it is re-jigged a bit to take account of the new arrangements as the focus is so much on play.
I have real sympathy with the school who have been forced into this arrangement by the local authority, but I really do not want DS to suffer if the school persist in making the decision on age and perhaps pointing at the fact that some of his social skills with his peers aren't perhaps as good as they should be (although I do think that it's just his personality - he's empathetic, polite and has a great sense of humour, he's just not as interested in the other kids as they are in him - apparently both I and DH were similar at that age and have managed to turn into very sociable adults!). I also think he would find it harder socially if he is stuck in a class with much younger kids as I think his main "problem" is that he's a bit old for his years.
Any thoughts anyone? Am I making a mountain out of a molehill? Or do I have to really go into bat on this one if it comes to it? I am very loath to interfere in the way the school is run - I generally believe in letting them get on with their job, so it would have to be a big issue for me to raise it.
Phew. That's a long post. If anyone is still awake, I'd welcome your thoughts.