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Attending school events is making me very prejudiced

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2atClaridges · 19/01/2013 13:06

What a palaver this morning. I made the mistake of taking my 7yo dd to a school entrance exam. I have to say after standing there for an hour and a half watching the goings on, I'm not totally convinced that schools themselves have not gone to pot. Its the bloody parents.

What a shambles, the pushing, shoving, tantrums and hissy fits. Grabbing cups and snatching chairs. The children themselves were rather well behaved, skipping and trotting off to the exam room, happy, laughing and giggling amongst themselves, but, Oh! The parents, no decorum, no politely awaiting their turn.

Imagine, if you will a combination of these things.

A central line station at 6pm with long delays.
A Millwall home win at the exit turnstiles.
A UN Feeding station in Somalia.
And a free handout of chappatti flour in Uttar Pradesh.

I could not believe how people were behaving, the mawkishness of some of the mothers and fathers. The disgraceful state of attire, the malodorous nature of some of them - a wash beforehand could possibly be of help in getting your child into a fee paying school. Politely asking for attention, rather than shouting - loudly and without deference - at the admissions master. Stepping to one side and letting the Headmistress through rather than pushing her away and saying wait your your turn.

What the hell has happened?!?!?!

And do you know, this is one of the top public schools in the UK - in the top 50. I accept my snobbery, we are only putting our daughter forward for this and one other at 7. My aim is to provide my children with the absolute best education I can afford. I accept I'll be paying until they are 30 as they go through to hopefully achieving their (I have two) doctorates. But I cannot accept the vile, shallow, ignorant, rude, unsophisticated, unreasonable and down right disgraceful behaviour I saw this morning.

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AnnIonicIsoTronic · 19/01/2013 13:07

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LadyMaryQuiteContrary · 19/01/2013 13:09

Well, what can I say other than money doesn't buy manners. Wink Surely it depends upon how the school can support and educate your child rather than the lack of manners of the parents?

EllenJaneisstillnotmyname · 19/01/2013 13:10

Was the racist comparison necessary?

Gunznroses · 19/01/2013 13:12

stepping to one side and letting the headmistress through rather than pushing her away and saying wait your turn

That is hilarious!

Labootin · 19/01/2013 13:12

OK I'll bite

How on earth can you afford a top public school given your supposedly dire financial situation.

And was your wife one of the dabbling hoard

I really do wonder

LadyMaryQuiteContrary · 19/01/2013 13:13

Darn, I missed those. I wish I hadn't have posted now. Blush

Labootin · 19/01/2013 13:13

Rabbling

Not vodka swilling

And if your dd is 7 why is she still sharing baths ?

bamboostalks · 19/01/2013 13:14

Your comparison with the feeding of the starving is in v poor taste and not funny.

Labootin · 19/01/2013 13:15

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recall · 19/01/2013 13:16

not so stealth brag !

meditrina · 19/01/2013 13:17

I'd love to see the academic results of a school which selected on the basis of parental grooming!

And I wish one did exist, unlikely a criteria as it may be, so that those, such as OP, who attach more importance to the social side and superficial details of appearance can go and colonise them, rather than one which assesses the potential pupils on merit.

learnandsay · 19/01/2013 13:22

When schools start educating parents instead of their children all of this will start to matter!

roundtable · 19/01/2013 13:23

Wow, mnhq are on the ball this afternoon! Grin

Labootin · 19/01/2013 13:25

To be fair I did report myself

The joys of a minor public school education is that one learns how to be polite.

EllenJaneisstillnotmyname · 19/01/2013 13:28

I can't see why one 'no comment' was deleted? Confused

McPhee · 19/01/2013 13:29

Wow

Arisbottle · 19/01/2013 13:29

I suspect the children may get help with boarding school fees because of their home situation.

LeeCoakley · 19/01/2013 13:29

Aren't you just miffed because you thought paying for 'one of the top public schools' meant not having to mix with the hoi-polloi?

tricot39 · 20/01/2013 08:40

As parental influence has a greater influence than school on children, i assume you would not accept a place if it were offered?

Flossiechops · 20/01/2013 08:49

Yawn

TotallyBS · 20/01/2013 09:24

Grin at the OP's blatant attempt at trolling. Did these parents whip their servants as well?

Cantbelieveitsnotbutter · 20/01/2013 09:41

I'm sure your children would benefit more from using the funds for a settled childhood. E.g rehab to help the wife, new home for you and the kids.

AnnIonicIsoTronic · 20/01/2013 09:48

My Biscuit got deleted!!!

But everyone loves biscuits!!

Missbopeep · 20/01/2013 09:50

Maybe you had best look at your local state school then.
Much nicer people all round I'd bet.

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