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Improving pencil grip

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Wallace · 05/09/2012 21:32

6 year old ds has just started P2 and still doesn't have a proper pencil grip. I have seen a fantastic list of exercises to help posted here before but can't find them.

Also his teacher suggested buying some pencil grips. Any recommendations? Also the teacher said something about tacky/sticky grips?

Thanks

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Shannaratiger · 05/09/2012 21:34

My ds(5) is exactly the same, will be watching with interest.

ReallyTired · 05/09/2012 21:42

Ebay is a good place to get pencil grips from. It is the only place I know that sells them singly. You almost have to try different types to see what your son gets on with.

This is a mixed pack and would be a good starting point.

www.ebay.co.uk/itm/5-Mixed-Pencil-Grip-Assortment-Pack-Handwriting-Aid-/300630939793?pt=UK_Home_Garden_PensPencils_WritingEquipment_SM&hash=item45ff001891

You can get triangular pencils which my son found better than pencil grips.

www.fun2make.co.uk/Berol-Hand-Huggers-12-Lead-Pencils_AP10H.aspx

steppemum · 05/09/2012 21:43

watching with interest. dd1 has poor pencil grip which I mistakenly assumed school would sort. dd2 just started reception also poor grip, want to be proactive.

someone give dd2 some lovely triangular pencils, work same way as pencil grip. When she uses them she just ignores the triangularness of them and holds them badly sigh

simpson · 05/09/2012 23:18

DD (4) and going into reception has poor pencil grip due to being hyper mobile.

Her OT has said to try and fix why she has a poor grip before using pencil grip/ aids iyswim.

She has loads of exercises to build up the strength in her fingers, threading beads, scrunching newspaper, playing with playdoh, using pegs etc, wringing sponge/face cloth in the bath etc....

Might be worth doing some of these too....

Does your DS complain that his arm hurts if he writes too much?? If he does this is a sign he is using the wrong muscles (apparently) so needs to strengthen the ones he does need to use if that makes sense...

DD is also left handed which does not help....

beachyhead · 05/09/2012 23:21

We did putting clothes pegs round the edge of a bowl....Not sure why, but that was what we were told....

Wallace · 06/09/2012 13:32

Thanks, the mixed set of grips is a good idea so we can see which one "works"

It is more like his hand hurts holding the pencil correctly, I think.

I think it was a poster called Mrz who posted a great list of exercises but I can't find them anywhere.

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spiderlight · 06/09/2012 13:53

Are these any use?

steppemum · 06/09/2012 15:09

great exercises, thanks, wallace.
i had forgotten the peg thing, did it lots with ds as he was reluctant drawer/colourer. When he did then pick up pencils he had good drip. Should have done it with dd1. Need to do it with dd2

ElBandito · 06/09/2012 16:38

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/primary/1274994-Pencil-Grips-handwriting

Is this what you were looking for?

jasperc163 · 06/09/2012 18:31

Hi
We went through a number of pencil grips and this was by far the best that I came across - made a big difference very quickly
www.stabilo.com/pages-uk/products/easy-ergo/

mrz · 06/09/2012 18:43

Things to remember:
Upright working surfaces promote fine motor skills. Examples of these are: vertical
chalkboards; easels for painting; flannel boards; lite bright; magnet boards (or
fridge); windows and mirrors; white boards, etc. Children can also make sticker
pictures; do rubber ink-stamping; use reuseable stickers to make pictures; complete
puzzles with thick knobs; use magna-doodle and etch-a-sketch as well. The benefits
for these include: having the child's wrist positioned to develop good thumb
movements; they help develop good fine motor muscles; the child is using the arm
and shoulder muscles.
Fine Motor Activities
Moulding and rolling play dough into balls - using the palms of the
hands facing each other and with fingers curled slightly towards the palm.
Rolling play dough into tiny balls (peas) using only the finger tips.
Using pegs or toothpicks to make designs in play dough.
Cutting play dough with a plastic knife or with a pizza wheel by holding
the implement in a diagonal volar grasp.
Tearing newspaper into strips and then crumpling them into balls. Use
to stuff scarecrow or other art creation.
Scrunching up 1 sheet of newspaper in one hand. This is a super
strength builder.
Using a plant sprayer to spray plants, (indoors, outdoors) to spray snow
(mix food colouring with water so that the snow can be painted), or melt
"monsters". (Draw monster pictures with markers and the colours will run
when sprayed.)
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Picking up objects using large tweezers such as those found in the
"Bedbugs" game. This can be adapted by picking up Cheerios, small cubes,
small marshmallows, pennies, etc., in counting games.
Shaking dice by cupping the hands together, forming an empty air space
between the palms.
Using small-sized screwdrivers like those found in an erector set.
Lacing and sewing activities such as stringing beads, Cheerios,
macaroni, etc.
Using eye droppers to "pick up" coloured water for colour mixing or
to make artistic designs on paper.
Rolling small balls out of tissue paper, then gluing the balls onto
construction paper to form pictures or designs.
Turning over cards, coins, checkers, or buttons, without bringing them to
the edge of the table.
Making pictures using stickers or self-sticking paper reinforcements.
Playing games with the "puppet fingers" -the thumb, index, and middle
fingers. At circle time have each child's puppet fingers tell about what
happened over the weekend, or use them in songs and finger plays.
Place a variety of forms (eg. blocks, felt, paper, string, yarn, cereal,
cotton) on outlines
Match shapes, colour, or pictures to a page and paste them within the
outlines
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Self-Care Skills
Buttoning
Lacing
Tying
Fastening Snaps
Zipping
Carrying
Using a screwdriver
Locking and unlocking a door
Winding a clock
Opening and closing jars
Rolling out dough or other simple cooking activities
Washing plastic dishes
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Sweeping the floor
Dressing
Scissor Activities
When scissors are held correctly, and when they fit a child's hand well, cutting
activities will exercise the very same muscles which are needed to manipulate a pencil
in a mature tripod grasp. The correct scissor position is with the thumb and middle
finger in the handles of the scissors, the index finger on the outside of the handle to
stabilize, with fingers four and five curled into the palm.
Cutting junk mail, particularly the kind of paper used in magazine
subscription cards.
Making fringe on the edge of a piece of construction paper.
Cutting play dough or clay with scissors.
Cutting straws or shredded paper.
Cutting
Use a thick black line to guide cutting the following:
A fringe from a piece of paper
Cut off corners of a piece of paper
Cut along curved lines
Cut lines with a variety of angles
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Cut figures with curves and angles
Sensory Activities
The following activities ought to be done frequently to increase postural muscle
strength and endurance. These activities also strengthen the child's awareness of
his/her hands.
Wheelbarrow walking, crab walking
Clapping games (loud/quiet, on knees together, etc.)
Catching (clapping) bubbles between hands
Pulling off pieces of thera-putty with individual fingers and thumb
Drawing in a tactile medium such as wet sand, salt, rice, or "goop".
Make "goop" by adding water to cornstarch until you have a mixture similar
in consistency to toothpaste. The "drag" of this mixture provides feedback to
the muscle and joint receptors, thus facilitating visual motor control.
Picking out small objects like pegs, beads, coins, etc., from a tray of salt,
sand, rice, or putty. Try it with eyes closed too. This helps develop sensory
awareness in the hands.

  1. Pegs ?
You need pegs of different sizes, clothes pegs, small bulldog clips, stationery clips etc. Get the children to use one hand only at a time. I usually get them to peg about 10 pegs of different sizes onto the sides of a gift bag. They might put them on with their left hand and take them off with their right. They can also try squeezing the pegs between the first finger and thumb (on each hand) then the middle finger and thumb and so on.
  1. Elastic bands ?
Elastic gymnastics! ? Start by putting 2 elastic bands (the same size) around the thumb, first and middle fingers, ask the child to open and close the fingers. Then add another 2 elastic bands and so on. The more you have on, the harder it is to move your fingers. These exercises help to develop the muscles which make the web space when writing.
  1. Beads ?
Get beads of different sizes and thread. Ask the children to thread some beads onto their string. The smaller the hole obviously the harder it is to thread. Develops hand/eye coordination.
  1. Ball bearings and tweezers ?
Put the ball bearings in one little box and ask the child to try and pick one ball bearing up at a time with the tweezers and place in a second small box. If this is too tricky try using Hama beads and tweezers.
  1. Floam / Playdough ?
These products are great for squeezing and rolling which provides necessary sensory feedback and helps to develop hand strength. Ask the children to squeeze the dough and roll it with the palm of their hand.
  1. Doodle board ?
The Doodleboard is just a way of children practising handwriting patterns or letters without having to commit them to paper. Provide some patterns and shapes to copy.
  1. Gummed Shapes ?
Give the children a sheet of plain paper and ask them to make patterns or pictures with the gummed shapes. Just picking up on shape at a time, licking it and then sticking it down all help to develop hand/eye coordination and the pincer grip.
  1. Hama Beads ?
Hama beads are good for pincer grip and hand/eye coordination. The children have patterned sheets to copy and peg boards to put them on.
  1. Lacing cards ?
Also good for hand/eye coordination. Just give each child one card to lace.
  1. Bean bags ?
    Give a child 4-5 bean bags and place a container about 3 feet infront of them. Ask the child to try and get as many beanbags in the container as possible. (Hand/eye coordination)

  2. Chalk and blackboard ?
    If you can, try and wedge the blackboard between two tables and provide the child with a piece of chalk in each hand. Ask them to draw the same pattern with both hands at the same time on both sides of the board. This helps develop bilateral movement.
    Allow the children to draw patterns, shapes and letter shapes on the blackboard. The chalk gives sensory feedback and sound simultaneously.

  3. Stencils ?
    Children can use the stencils to make a picture. Helps develop pencil control and special awareness among other things.

  4. Feathers ?
    Ask the children to try and balance a feather on different parts of their body. This helps to develop balance and coordination.

  5. Handhugger pens ?
    Hand hugger pens are the triangular shaped pens. These help the children to establish a better pencil grip.

  6. Tissue paper strips ?
    Place the child?s palm (at the wrist) on the end of a strip of tissue paper. Ask them to only use their middle finger to get the paper to scrunch up under their hand.
    Repeat, but this time place the side of the child?s hand on one end of the tissue strip and ask them to only use their thumb to scrunch up the paper and bring it under their hand.
    These activities really help to develop the hand arch, web space and muscle tone of the hand.

  7. Stickers ?
    Children love stickers. Just peeling them off provides an opportunity to develop fine motor skills and hand/eye coordination.

  8. Peg boards ?
    These can be peg boards where the child has to place pegs in the holes, maybe copying patterns.
    They can be the boards with plastic pegs already on where they have to stretch elastic bands between them to make patterns.

Wallace · 06/09/2012 18:43

bingo! thanks ElBandito :)

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Wallace · 06/09/2012 18:44

cross pots! Thank you so very much mrz :)

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skewiff · 06/09/2012 18:44

Someone recommended these:

Stabilo Easygraph and Easycolours are wonderful. A bit pricey, but really really good for pencil grip and excellent quality. It's what sorted out DS2's pencil grip and he loves his colours.

to me the other day on mumsnet ...

I bought them straight away and DS has not once gone back (whilst using these pencils) to his dreadful grip that he had before. I am too scared to try him out with a 'normal' pencil at the moment because its such a relief that he's finally holding the pencil properly.

Wallace · 06/09/2012 21:43

Really don't know which to choose...

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KitKatGirl1 · 06/09/2012 21:56

Ok, this may not seem especially helpful at the beginning of term but I would recommend trying to correct a pen grip during the school holidays (longer than the one week half term probably) because you can control virtually every instance your child picks up a pen/pencil and remind them of the correct way to hold it. Obviously at school, there is no way a teacher or TA can police your child's every attempt to write/draw and help them in this way, but you (hopefully) can, when they're at home every day, making it easier for your child to learn it quickly.

As it is the beginning of term you should probably take some of the other advice/buy some of the recommended pens/pencils, but if you've had no joy within a couple of weeks I would wait until the holidays. My ds had a terrible pen grip until end of yr5. His teacher said it was now ingrained and would be impossible to correct, so I made it my mission to do this and only this (as an educational activity) over the summer hols last year. Couple of weeks in, he'd grasped it and now has the most beautiful handwriting.

Wallace · 06/09/2012 22:13

We are in Scotland so already in the fourth week of term, which means October holidays are approaching fast Grin

If we have had no success by then yours is a very good suggestion.

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