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Dare I even ask... looking around Primary Schools

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StetsonsAreCool · 02/09/2012 21:10

Oh god, this is so embarrassing and PFB and I need a second opinion Blush

We need to make a decision about where we live. Currently renting, will move to another rental property if we do move, as we're not quite in a position to buy yet. We live in an ok street in an otherwise not-the-best area, we wouldn't choose to buy here. Anyway, the house we live in is great. I'm worried about DD starting school here though.

The two schools in our catchment area are Satisfactory and (barely) Good according to Ofsted, so I'm not convinced about them on that basis. But I know Ofsted isn't the be all and end all, and actually they might be a really happy place for DD to spend her school week. On the other hand, the teachers might be spending too much time on crowd control to actually be able to teach.

Do I ask them if I can have a look round? Will I sound like a pillock? This isn't the sort of area where parents really support their children's education, so part of me thinks they'll be laughing at us/dreading us sending DD there, because we'll be 'those parents' who push too hard (we won't, I have teacher parents myself so they are quite welcome to get on with teaching DD in whatever way they like).

I want to like either school because I don't really want to move. But we've got to make a decision by Christmas really, because we'll have to find somewhere else to live. DD is only 2.3, but would potentially be starting pre-school class next September, and the applications have to go in early. I think before her third birthday.

I'm almost tempted not to post this and go and find a grip to get hold of instead Blush Wink

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StetsonsAreCool · 04/09/2012 21:02

Thanks again everyone - some really good things to look for.

The Ofsted thing is totally the reason why I wanted to look round them in the first place - I know you can only take what they say with a pinch of salt. They're very formulaic aren't they - like school reports really, they just seem to select the phrases from a list to compile a 4 page report, but none of it seems to personalise it to that school apart from the combination of phrases IYKWIM?

Haberdashery, those are some really good questions for me to think about when I'm there. You've articulated my thoughts better than I'd thought them Grin

It doesn't really matter whether she's smart, or the best behaved or the most diligent or sporty or arty etc - all that matters is that the school is able to support her in the way she needs. And I'll only know that from looking round.

I was talking to my Mum about this last night, and it turns out she nearly applied for the Headship at one of these schools a few years ago, but she was offered another job in a different LA before she put her form in. Funny old world eh?

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