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No uniform at DD's new school - what does she actually 'need' clothes-wise for reception

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Bitzer · 22/08/2012 13:50

Just looking for tips really. At the moment she just has a motley collection of t-shirts (long and short-sleeved), a few dresses and some jeans. Maybe that's fine but would appreciate any guidance on bits they are definitely likely to need especially as she's growing out of a lot so we will have to start again soon.

Thanks v much

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GobblersKnob · 26/08/2012 10:14

Just fantastic Haberdashery so I either imagined the whole thing or I attended a shiity school and those parents who have bothered to send their kids to a 'nice' school needn't worry? Hmm

What the actual fuck?

In your experience maybe, but not in mine. I love the need to shit all over other peoples opinions just to prove your fucking point.

peppajay · 26/08/2012 10:15

I love uniform basically for the practicality of it and the sense of belonging to a particular school. I love going to get their school shoes and they still have a nice pair of boots or trainers to wear out of school. I think no uniform is terrible as it just ends up being a fashion parade for the parents to show off. I hate mufti days as some kids go dressed up to the nines and my kids just go in leggings and tops and there are always arguments about 'I want trainers like Kyle's' or 'how come Sarah gets to wear mini skirts?'!!

Haberdashery · 26/08/2012 15:28

What the actual fuck right back at you, Gobbler. I have no idea what you are on about. I was merely pointing out that it is quite possible to have non-uniform schools where no clothes-based bullying goes on even where there are vast disparities of wealth and therefore ability to acquire whatever the in thing happens to be. Your experience and mine are obviously quite different. I was expressing my opinion. I'm very sorry to have upset you but I think you are taking offence where none was intended or implied. As for 'nice' schools, I think schools where bullying is not tolerated much nicer than those where it happens.

SE13Mummy · 27/08/2012 23:58

I went to a primary school that had no uniform and was desperate to have one so my Mum purchased 'school clothes' which were schoolish i.e. pinafores and blouses or checked summer dresses but in a range of colours, styles etc.

Fast-forward to 2010 and DD1 starts school at a school that has an optional uniform. She's desperate to wear uniform, I'm not that bothered and so we compromise; she wears uniformish - pinafore/skirt with white blouse but any tights and hot pink Kickers (velcro!). Once a week, on the same day, she wears her non-uniformish clothes but only takes cardigans etc. that are labelled with her name. Uniform makes things more straightforward in this house and DD1 knows that we don't mind if whiteboard pens, brown poster paint and PVA glue and the like end up staining those items as that's part of what happens at school. I'd be less impressed if she ruined a more 'special' item of clothing by wearing it to school after she'd chosen to go for uniform.

DD2 starts nursery in September and she wants to wear uniform too! She's chosen a couple of pinafores and some blue t-shirts from Sainsbury along with a cardigan or two. The advantages are time-saving in terms of decision-making, only having to label one pile of clothes (as opposed to labelling everything that might ever be taken to school) and children not having to worry that we'll be cross if something is wrecked during an enthusiastic art session.

FWIW, if my DDs weren't into wearing uniforms they'd be in hand-me-down skirts/leggings with t-shirts and cardigans. Everything would be labelled, PE kit would be plain t-shirt and plain shorts, spare pair of socks (in case tights were worn on a PE day), cheap trainers/pumps, sunhat/cap, lightweight raincoat for the summer, warm coat with a hood for the other 11 months of the year, wellies/snowboots and comfy, practical shoes that have a decent grip and won't fall apart if they are used on the climbing wall/football pitch.

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