To cut a long story short, we are hoping to move house late summer/early autumn. Ds1 is due to start Year 1 in September. In our new area there are 4 schools within a mile.
There is a lovely school (lovely based on OFSTEDand visit) 0.2 miles from the house. It is full. Another 2 of the schools are about one mile away and have space. They both seem lovely and do have spaces. The other school is 0.3 miles away from the new house and up a hill. It has spaces but OFSTED mentions behavioural difficulties of a minority that cause probems. It is a grade 3 and the other 3 schools are all 2s - I am not OFSTED obsessed but really loved the nearest school based on the visit as well. The grade 3 school that has spaces didn't have as nice a feel to it - not as much display work up and I didn't really find the teacher as warm as in the other school.
Dh is sahd and I commute 30 minutes to work (teacher), the commute will be the same distance from new house. We only have (and can afford, really) one car.Dh has MS. It is not severe at the moment and no one would ever know that he had it. He tends to have one or two relapses a year during which he stays in bed. These tend to last about 2-3 weeks. However, he does get tired quite easily but I can't honestly say that the MS limits our life in any way, apart from when he relapses. Dh takes the dc to and from schol every day on foot. It would be best for us that the dc attend the nearest school to our house (and one that isn't up a hill) and, in that case, this happens to be the nicest school. And, as I said, it is full.
Part of the reason why we are moving is to get the dc into a better school. The school ds1 is in now is good but has a high proportion of children with SEN and behavioural difficulties and those learning English. Please don't flame me - I loved the school when we visited and do think they do a great job, But ds is pretty quiet and I feel he has melted into the background rather because of al lthe children who are high-need. I wanted different for him when we moved but now it looks like he will be going into a similar situation.
Am I right in thinking that nothing I have mentioned here would be taken into consideration by an appeal panel if we tried to get in to the full school which is the nearest to our new house?