Hi,
My son has just been found to have dyscalculia. He is 11 in Sept and will be going into year 6. I have been telling the school that he has a problem with maths for over 3 years but he apparently can do maths better at school than when he is at home doing his homework.
He can often not do his maths homework and I constantly feel like I have had to teach it to him from scratch each and every week. The teacher tell me that he has been taught it in school which I don't dispute but he certainly doesn't know how to do it when he gets home. I suspect this is partly to do with memory issues. He sometimes cries with anxiety about his maths homework at home but the teacher told the assessor that he isn't anxious at school and that he likes maths. He hides his anxiety and doesn't like maths at all.
I have suspected dyscalculia for along time and it is just a shame that the teachers never picked up anything themselves and it has taken until almost 11 to diagnose this problem. However, I want to look to the future now so I would be very grateful if any parents or teachers with any kind of experience of dyscalculia could give any advice.
My main concern is how to help him at home. I have a very poor working memory so sometimes find his homework difficult myself. Whenever I have told the teacher that he usually can't do the maths homework I have just been told that he should just do his best. I often have to help him so much that I am practically telling him the answer just to get the homework done and in on time.
I have told the teachers if I genuinely let him do the work without this amount of help then the homework would never get done. They have never really given me an adequate answer or solution to this. I know that if he doesn't do the homework then the teachers will just think we are not bothering.
I am getting fed up as someone with a specific learning difficulty - and also finding maths very difficult - myself of feeling like I am teaching him from scratch and not getting any real support off his teachers.
Last years teacher even told me that he was below people in his maths group that not as intelligent as him and that he wasn't working hard enough. I know dyscalculia is very hard to diagnose but I could tell there was key traits of dyscalculia and lots of people have good intelligence levels and have special needs so I was abit annoyed with attitude.
Sorry for the long post