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DS's show-and-tell toy went home with wrong child.

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PeppermintCreams · 11/07/2012 10:09

Sorry this is long!!!

Every week my (PFB) son's school nursery class focus on a letter/phonic and they have to bring in something beginning with that letter. Last week was "X" and of course lots of xylophones and x-ray photos were brought in!

My son brought in a wooden ELC xylophone. (In hindsight I should have labelled it - and I am very cross with myself for not doing so!) We noticed another boy with the same one in the queue in the morning, and I jokingly said to my son, make sure you don't bring X's home with you, it looks a lot more damagedbattered that ours!!

Anyway, It didn't come home with him the same day because they were doing inductions into reception and we picked them up from a different place, and then the rest of the week his dad/nan has picked him up and I didn't think to remind them.

On Monday I mentioned it to the TA and she said Ohhh we did have one xylophone left and no child would admit it was theirs. So I looked at it and said that's definitely not our one, it's the one X had in the queue. (It has a very distinctive mark on the front)

So the TA has had a word with the mum in question this morning, and she has apparently sworn they brought their one home.

So what do I do now? I'm hoping the mum was just embarrassed and will go home and look at the xylophone and realise it's not their one. I don't want to sound petty but our one was in good nick, and the other one is damaged. Also my son knows that it's not our one. I won't see his teacher again today as they are doing more reception inductions, and his dad/nan will be doing the school run for the rest of the week. Should I write a letter?

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seeker · 13/07/2012 06:37

Just about to come on and say does it work still? If so, move on!

RosemaryandThyme · 13/07/2012 11:37

arrrr Rilla - I'm in x-ray envy ! - as my boys would say - that is soooo cool.

ShowOfHands · 13/07/2012 11:46

Whilst in primary school I took in my dad's book of WWII poetry for a project. The teacher swore she'd take care of it. It had a slip in it with my details and my initials lightly written in pencil in it. It was autographed by several people too, a v distinctive book with some financial value.

The school nicked it, put their stamp and a sticky library lending thing in it too. It took ages to convince them to give it back. My dad was gutted.

Sugartongue · 13/07/2012 12:06

You're being a bit precious and you need to get over it - my no.1 rule for the kids is that if they take anything into school they have to accept that it may either get broken, stolen or lost and they should only take it if they can handle that happening. You as an adult ought to be able to grasp that too. It's only a toy (not some family heirloom of great sentimental value the cheeky bastard school library, eh )

Coconutty · 13/07/2012 13:41

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Hopeforever · 16/07/2012 17:43

Have you apologised to the mum you wrongly accused of taking your child's toy home?

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