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Why does DD find reading so hard?

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tigrou · 10/07/2012 21:28

I have been reading all the phonics discussions and all the threads about the reading levels achieved by everyone's various children, and I can't find anything that corresponds to my DD. Please please please help point me in the direction of the cause of her difficulties, so we can find the best response.
She will be 7 this summer, but because we are not in the UK, she has only had two years of reading teaching in English. She started reading in her other language this year. She does not have any problem compartmentalising her languages : she is fully bilingual and has been from birth, with excellent spoken fluency and vocabulary in both languages (deemed way above average by her teachers). However, as far as reading goes (in both languages) :

  • She knows all the individual letter sounds, and can sound out and blend simple CVC type words ( but she pretty much needs to sound them out every time she sees them);
  • She knows the sounds made by digraphs when pushed, but virtually always sounds out each sound separately, rather than seeing them as a unit, which slows down her recognition of the word and saps her energy - I am certain that she would have fallen down badly on this famous phonics test;
  • She often reads words backwards or all jumbled up, even really simple words that she's seen hundreds of times - no/on, for/of, for/from, and/had, take/kate, new/w(h)en...
  • She frequently misreads words that she has either recently read or could sound out quite easily because she just looks at the begining and guesses - sometimes this works and it looks like she's reading, but she's either guessing from context or recalling what one of her classmates read out in class (using a synonym of the actual workd on the page, for example);
  • She LOVES stories, loves being read to, loves listening to books on CD, but can't get any pleasure out of reading to herself - too slow, too tiring, too frustrating...
  • She works hard and is very persevering, it's not that she's not making an effort.
  • Oh, and she's also very very smart - that's not just me saying it, several people have suggested she is 'gifted'. But how can you be gifted and still not able to learn to read? And her writing ability is suffering from her poor reading skills. She almost never finishes her work, not because she can't do it but just because her writing is so slow (and she can never remember to use any of the spelling rules she's learnt).
I've read so many threads saying that reading is actually quite easy and it makes me so down-hearted. Why is reading so hard for her????
OP posts:
learnandsay · 10/07/2012 21:50

dyslexia?

oliverreed · 10/07/2012 21:54

Indigo Bells threads are really informative - do an advanced search on MN. Has she had an optometry test?

derekthehamster · 10/07/2012 22:01

My son was identical to this at this age (he's just turned 9). He is much better now, really improved when he was 7/8 (yr3). We still have a lot of problems with spelling, we're starting the Apples and Pears scheme during the summer holidays, and he's also having 1 hour tuition from a teaching assistant once a week to help with his literacy.

I bought loads of early reading books (we only had a reading book over the weekend from school) and also borrowed the old reading scheme books (biff and chip) from school. However he's only just realising that reading is fun.

zippy539 · 10/07/2012 22:18

But how can you be gifted and still not able to learn to read? And her writing ability is suffering from her poor reading skills. She almost never finishes her work, not because she can't do it but just because her writing is so slow (and she can never remember to use any of the spelling rules she's learnt).

Two years ago this was ds exactly. He was smart (98th percentile apparently if you go for that kind of thing) and had a huge vocab. But he could not read (at age of 8.5) remember spellings and was extremely slow at written work. Turned out he is severely dyslexic. Two years on he's at a specialised dyslexic school (no help available in his regular primary school) and he is making real progress. His spelling will always be bad but his handwriting has got loads faster and he has started to love reading - he just finished reading The Hobbit all by himself which is utterly astonishing to me given that he refused to read ANYTHING until the age of 9.5.

It might be worth getting you dd tested - although the dyslexic label doesn't fix anything it stopped me being so exasperated with ds (who I thought was just being lazy Blush). It also meant we could start researching strategies that could help him. Good luck:) .

sashh · 11/07/2012 05:40

But how can you be gifted and still not able to learn to read?

That's most dyslexics.

Also have her eyes checked.

nooka · 11/07/2012 05:47

She sounds very similar to my ds, another dyslexic. Messing up simple words is I think very typical. For us synthetic phonics tutoring was the answer on the reading side (not so much with spelling/handwriting though).

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