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Y3 DS - Bright but slapdash. How can I help?

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Taffeta · 19/06/2012 09:17

I'm looking for some suggestions and advice please. DS (8, Y3) is bright but slapdash. His teacher assessed levels are very good, but his test results and some exercises he completes aren't or are very patchy, as he doesn't read the questions properly and rushes.

His teacher told me yesterday his reading is excellent, but I guess his comprehension sometimes falters as he isn't focused enough and skips words to rush on. just like me

He likes doing things quickly and its a real struggle to get him to slow down. He's very sporty and likes everything fast action, fast pace - he even bolts his food.

I am aware of a few comments on MN about some bright but lazy/slapdash children not doing so well at secondary, and the hard thorough workers being the success story. We are in an 11 plus area.

How can I encourage and help my DS to slow down a bit and be more thorough? Does anyone know of any techniques or programmes that might help? Many thanks.

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learnandsay · 19/06/2012 09:36

If was my son I'd try to find one of his existing interests like cars and get him a note book to swap observations with other car/vehicle enthusiasts. If he had no interests which could be broken down into small details I'd try to introduce him to one, like chess. And if I convinced myself that my child simply did not have the patience to labour over any exercise, I'd start encouraging him to develop naturally. Being the fastest to do things is also very good. Not everyone is academic. But eight is too young to tell whether he will be. The 11+ route isn't the only route.

Taffeta · 19/06/2012 09:45

Thank you learnandsay. His main passion is football. He is obsessed. He plays it endlessly, reads about it, creates his own league tables, has created some school teams with his friends where they buy and sell players using invented cash, he watches it and he talks about it constantly.

He is also into cricket, tennis, table tennis, golf, most sports. He plays chess ( is in a chess club ) and does DT club. He is super competitive.

What does "academic" mean? He is bright, he's always found school work easy, but by academic do we mean thorough and detailed? If so, are these inherent traits that can't be taught at this sponge-like age?

The options here that aren't grammar are pretty dire, tbh. I do worry that by encouraging him to develop naturally, I might be ruining his chances of a good education.

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learnandsay · 19/06/2012 10:07

If he's eight he's already old enough to play in competitions, in the 7-11 category. That requires attention to detail. Can you discuss real football league tables with him? Encourage him to put up a web page with details of transferring players, new results, which teams need which points to move up or down. Grown men spend ages doing those calculations. They'd be impressive in an eight year old. That's certainly attention to detail. Sounds to me like he's got endless opportunity to pay attention to detail and already does to some extent. Once he finds details rewarding he'll probably naturally start using them in other areas (like school work.) As long as he finds it rewarding too. (PS, My comment about academic relates to life in general not children.)

Taffeta · 19/06/2012 10:15

Thats great advice, thank you so much learnandsay Smile

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