I personally have no objection to anything that is said on these boards as long as they are not rascist or abusive or personally attack people. I also don't have any issue with anything you have said about phonics as its your opinion but I disagree that anyone has been personal about you, they have just disagreed.
You said you didn't say anything about opting out of phonics so I said I believed you had.
You are entitled to your opinion but if no one agrees with you I can't see why you come on these particular threads when they are not actually asking for a phonics - right or wrong discussion.