My four year old dd (July birthday) has been in Reception since Jan. School is doing a great job with her reading, I think. She's gone through Jelly & Bean and is now doing Dandelion Phonics. Which she likes. And she's on yellow band, if that makes any difference.
With regards to books coming home, I'm being advised by her teacher that she must reread the sentence if she has sounded out words in it (for comprehension). This makes total sense. Trouble is, it makes dd panic. She really doesn't want to be made to read it again (at a guess it makes her feel like a failure). She will go to any length to avoid this happening including wild guessing and putting her hand over her mouth in an attempt to 'sound' silently before reading the word. She also keeps saying "I don't want to read the sentence again". If she is allowed to sound she is 100pc correct on words, even harder ones such as "glint" and knows all the key words in the books.
I want her to enjoy books so I've just encouraged her to read what she can and sound the other words and not made her repeat them this week. She understands the books fine and can answer questions. I heard her reading one to her little sister this week and she was so much less nervous without the being made to repeat 'threat' hanging over her..
Sorry for essay. What I'm asking is basically is it ok for me to let her sound when she wants to and not make her repeat the words? Don't want to challenge her teacher's methods too much on this or obviously hold dd back. What should I do?