I called the PPS who were going to phone the school and arrange a meeting with regards to my issues. And:
First of all he was confused (join the club) as to why they were phoning as he thought everything was fine after the meeting. What he really means is: when I said to dd's mum that I hope we had trust in each other from now on, and when I told dd's mum not to speak to anyone else regarding this and to just go to him, really means "Don't go taking anymore outside advice as you'll realise I'm supposed to know what I'm bloody doing!!!!!"
The Head told her that he has a pastoral support development programme in place . . WHAT????? When did that happen? I said that wasn't the case and she said if you only had the meeting a couple of days ago it's probably not been put in place and I had to give it time. I knew he was going to get the pastoral guy to check her reading age, nothing else?!
He once again, said her levels were great and at level 4's. Which they're not.
He said DD had a mentor to go through this so called pastoral support thingy!!
He said he acknowledges the recent private report. That's bollocks funny as he didn't to us!!
He said dd has been referred by school nurse to relevant people. . What he didn't say is the school nurse is dds health visitor and that's the capacity she went to the meeting with me, not in a school capacity!!!!
He mentioned the Ep I've contacted myself, though he's not referred her on yet as he's not normally at that school and was covering for said ill person who is back, yet not taking dd on?!?!
I said that it sounded like she was backing the school up and could I tell her all the various levels we'd been told previously . . Which is the reason for me not knowing the actual levels. Which I did!
Not sure I got anywhere but I said I wanted to foully complain about the school, lack of listening to concerns, lack of referrals - you name it. She's asked me to bullet point it and email them and they'll draft a letter up for me to send.
Is it even worth it?