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Junior school admissions/appeals advice please!

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notsoladyjess · 14/05/2012 18:32

Hi, I'd really like some advice. I have 2 sons, both went to local infant school, eldest went on to the feeder junior school next door. Ds2 due to start yr 3 in sep.
I submitted his form for the junior school 3 days late. I know you'll think what a stupid woman I am but there were extenuating circumstances (both patents working full time in London, commuting, going through a divorce, me being signed off shortly afterwards with stress, me recently resigning from said job as simply could not do it all and clearly children were suffering). I feel like a fool as I was totally unaware the form had to be in until someone asked if I'd handed it in. I take responsibility for this huge mistake.
My son is first on the waiting list so I'm now waiting to see if anyone declines their place. I also sent an appeal in but I would like to know if there is anything I should be doing.
I cited the situation we were in, the fact we have sibling link, that ds2 is currently at the linked infant school, fact that both boys need stability in light of fact we are going through divorce, inability to take both boys to different schools at the same time and get to work as well, established friendship groups, fact ds2 is v timid and his confidence would be adversely affected by going to an unknown school.
I've spoken to the junior school so they are aware how keen I am and they know it is v out of character for me to be so remiss. Should I request to speak directly with the headmistress?
Thanks for listening and as I said I am so angry with myself and so upset that I've messed up.
Any advice would be welcomed.
Many thanks

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AngelEyes46 · 14/05/2012 18:39

notso - it's going to be so likely that you are going to get a place. If you had applied on time, you would have, hence you being 1st on the waiting list. However, they can't just find you a place as presumably they are at PAN. You could also appeal but wait for one of the experts (admissions, panelchair, schoolsnightmare) to come on to let you know more about this. From what I have seen on various threads it is difficult to appeal for infant class but I don't thinks yours falls into this.

SchoolsNightmare · 14/05/2012 18:43

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AngelEyes46 · 14/05/2012 18:55

But it's not reception is it if I'm reading correctly? It's year 3?

notsoladyjess · 14/05/2012 19:06

Thank you both for your prompt response. I submitted the form 3 days after the deadline given on Brighton & Hove City Council site. I was not aware there was a further cut off date.
I am pretty sure we would have been given a place if I'd got there on time. We have sibling link, infant feeder and we live extremely close to the school.
I will have to wait it out.
Thanks again
J

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SchoolsNightmare · 14/05/2012 19:13

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PanelChair · 14/05/2012 19:51

It seems likely that it was the lateness that cost you the place as you must have been high on the admissions priorities (as evidenced by now being first on the waiting list).

Use the appeal to highlight why your child needs a place in the school and why this outweighs the disadvantage to the school
In admitting another pupil. You've mentioned several reasons in your post. ICS rules don't apply here so you are arguing on the balance of disadvantage.

notsoladyjess · 14/05/2012 20:00

Thank you all SO much, you've really made me feel a lot more positive. I was reading about PAN and took a big gulp!
I have asked my doctor to confirm in writing that I was signed off from work with stress. Should I bring someone along to the appeal if it cones to it? I want to do all I can.
Again I really appreciate your time responding.
I'll let you know how I get on.
X

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notsoladyjess · 18/05/2012 13:04

Hi,
I just wanted to let you know that a place came up for my son so I quite literally bit their arm off for it!
Thank you so much for your posts, they were really encouraging when I was feeling pretty desperate.
Jess x

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