OK, MNers, really need some advice. My DD is in Y2. I wouldn't say she's a genius, but she's very bright with a huge imagination. She makes up plays and stories and composes songs. We read to her/with her all the time, every day. We go to the library once a week at least and she loves books.
The mechanics of reading have been a challenge for her for part of this year, but I decided not to get too neurotic about it, and thought she'd just grow into it. Suddenly in January something clicked and her reading really took off. Since then it's been steady progress through ORT and others, and she's now reading easy chapter books, such as the Battersea Dogs Home and Horrid Henry series.
Anyway, her teacher is competent, but I do feel that she doesn't "get" my DC and only sees her in a particular way (i.e. a lot less able than she is). I've had three meetings with this teacher about DD's progress, trying to be respectful and cooperative and always asking for her advice on what to work on blah blah blah.
Today DD came home upset that she has been moved to the bottom (like, the absolute bottom) set. As I'm sure you all know, they can dress it up all they like, but kids know which table is the bottom table. I feel this cannot be right, that somehow a huge mis-assessment has happened. I know what she does at home and it bears absolutely no relation to what she's being asked to do at school. I feel this is wrong and detrimental to her confidence and education.
Either 1) it's the teacher's problem in that she doesn't see the child in front of her or 2) it's my DD's problem, in that somehow she isn't showing what she's capable of. If it's the latter, then it's still in some sense the teacher's problem.
What to do? Talk to the head? Has anyone been in a similar position? Isn't it risky to do this, as it could backfire on my child? I could flexi-school (home-school on a part-time basis) till the end of the year and hope that next years teacher will be very different.
Sorry for length of post but didn't want to drip. Any wisdom, advice, suggestions gratefully received.