Hello,
you can use this software:
www.mrbartonmaths.com/jigsaw.htm
www.mmlsoft.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=11&Itemid=12
to make jigsaws or dominos-type cards with the numbers bonds (e.g. 3 and 17, etc.) and make her practise practise practise
Also, you could cut out a 5 x 4 rectangle (made up of 20 squares, 4 rows of 5 squares each), then cut it into two shapes, for ex. one representing number 6 (one row of 5, plus one square), the other is the complementary one (number 14, two rows of 5, one of four). Do this for the 10 bonds, and she has to match the shapes (you can also write the number of squares on each of the shapes, to help her associate the symbol with the quantity). Does this make sense?
I also use cuisennaire rods. I think they are very visual.