We have just found out that our appeal to change our daughter's school has been rejected.
The panel summarised our issues correctly (to a degree) in the letter as follows:
"E's attitude to school has changed since she has been at xxx primary school. She has found it difficult to make friends in a different community. There are not many girls in her class (8 out of 21) and she has found it difficult to integrate. X is now very unhappy at school. There have been some instances of verbal bullying. Her class has significant behavioural problems and her education is suffering because of the disruption. Y primary school is our neatest community school. The French club would be good for her because we have recently moved back from France. She has been described as a 'good influence' and she would be a positive contributor to the school".
All well and good but what they didn't mention is that one of the main reasons dd is finding it difficult to make friends is that the vast majority of children in her class live within 5-10 mins walk of the school. We live 30 mins away. There are no opportunities for dd to play with anyone outside of school as we are nowhere near them. We wanted to move her to xxx school as it will not only provide dd with a larger pool of girls (18 out of a class of 30) but will also integrate her with children who live locally.
The letter then went on to say:
"The panel expressed concern about X but did not feel that her situation was exceptional. After careful thought and discussion they regretfully came to the conclusion that the prejudice to X did not outweigh the pressures on the school."
Now, I have 2 issues with this response. The first is wtf do they mean by "exceptional"? What are they comparing her situation to? Is there a sliding scale of situations? Surely this is a subjective opinion?
Secondly, and this is more significant, when dh & I left the appeal we were both of the opinion that the LA had barely made an argument against us. She mentioned the standard response about pressure on the school but when questioned about room sizes she said that they were more than adequate, in fact, they were larger than required. She also commented that there were no significant issues wrt to special needs and that these were on a par or slightly less than the national average. She even voluntarily mentioned that we were 900m from Y school as opposed to 1900m from X school. Outside the room we even chatted to her and she started talking about if we were successful we could appeal on behalf of our other dd next term for year 3 entry, almost as if she was convinced we would be successful.
My question is where do we go from here? It is my view that not only haven't they based their decision on all the relevant facts but they have given more weight to the weaker argument. How on earth can they believe that the very real issue of a child's disengagement with school is less important than the possible additional pressure that might come from a child who has no behavioural problems and in fact is a good influence?
Thanks for getting this far. Is there anything at all we can do? I cannot put dd through another 2.5 years if this. I'be got to go to work now so apologies if I don't come back to the thread straight away.
I was heartbroken when we told dd. Devastated is not the word
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