Hi paddingtonbear1:
My advice is hang in there. It really does look (as others have posted) that your DD is making stead progress. I think given the ear problems, it is no small wonder that your DD has struggled a bit, but you really are catching up fast.
Absolutely agree that what you do to support learning at home has to be fun, but you can play clever. Don't underestimate the power of parental cunning with improving writing:
Get her to send postcards when you go places or go on holiday. Have her send them to favourite teachers, friends, Aunties/ Uncles, Grandma/ Grandpa, etc... Let her start out not writing much, just steadily encourage a bit more writing each card. Oh, by the way, would you tell Aunti X that I say she'd love the shops here!
If she gets children's magazines and is interested in competitions - enter the old-fashioned way by letter sent by snail mail! Don't just send in the competition answer. Have her say something about the magazine/ character/ tv show/ etc...
Have her write something more than her name in birthday cards - or better yet make them.
Letter to Father Christmas - essential every year!
Send thank you cards for all presents/ treats. Old fashioned - but grandma's eat this stuff up!
Keep a diary (or try Diary of a Wimpy kid, which includes lots of writing as well as reading). With our DDs we've gone to a nice stationary shop and had them chose a notebook and pen of their own. They loved the treat and have done all sorts of writing/ doodling in their notebooks.
Encourage handwriting practice - both my DDs are into playing with their cursive handwriting. Once your DD is onto joined up writing - really encourage her to develop her style by practicing different ways of writing the same letter or word.
Be very old-fashioned and encourage your DD to write out spelling words as practice. My DDs claim to hate this, but actually get into writing words with different coloured pens and swirls and other fancy additions. In return for writing out spellings, I usually get a treat (no time for baking here, but if you do have the time even better). So they have a nice snack and calmly write out words at a very relaxed pace, whilst we also discuss their day or I do a few chores.
We found geometric colouring books (just type in geometric colouring books on amazon) and crayola twistable coloured pencils really helped fine motor skills for DD1 (a leftie who really struggled).
I really believe in the value of practice. Don't overdo it of course, but the odd 5-10 minutes here or there a few times over the week cummulatively does seem to make a difference.
HTH