I'm just wondering what is sensible and reasonable to expect. My dd is in Y2. Last year she was assessed by the Educational Psychologist (the SENCo organised this as there have been concerns about possible dyspraxia) and the EP was apparently quite blown away by her. I'm told they had a great chat, and she came out as quite ahead in almost all areas but particularly in literacy where at the time (aged 6 in Y1) she had a reading age of 10.5 and other verbal/comprehension skills to match.
The SENCo and her teacher were lovely, really positive about her, and her teacher was imaginative about extending her in school and encouraging her. She said that she thought dd would really benefit from a book discussion group or similar, and organised for her to meet weekly with a child in Y5 to read and discuss books together. I was delighted and dd loved it.
This relationship with the older child is supposed to be continuing this year, but so far in Y2 I think they have actually met about 4 times. Dd has been doing a bit of reading/discussing with a student teacher, but she has now left. DD was quite tearful about this as she has so much loved being able to discuss texts. So I went to ask this year's class teacher whether the sessions with the older child would be resuming. She said that the reason it hadn't been happening was that she kept forgetting to remind the other child's teacher on the appropriate day and that it wasn't at the top of her list of things to do in the morning, what with lesson plans etc.
I think it's very sad that the teacher doesn't seem to see it as a priority, especially since there seems to be no reason for it not to happen other than just forgetting to organise it.
I don't want to be too pushy with the teacher but I was wondering whether it would be sensible to ask the deputy head what provision the school might make for dd next year, bearing in mind that this doesn't really seem to have worked as it should. But would I be overstepping the mark? Would you expect a school to provide extension/enrichment for an advanced child or is it not generally expected?