I have parents evening coming up & have a few concerns, but think I might be being picky and don't want to ask questions if I am being unreasonable or would like to ask them in the correct way, so was hoping some of you might be-able to give me some perspective and advice?
The situation is this -
My DS is meeting expectations and exceeding them in some areas which makes me wonder if I should therefore just leave the teachers to do their job and shelve my slight concerns.
He has just been moved to the top group for reading, but hasn't read with anyone at school for 4, nearly 5 weeks - in the old group he used to read twice a week.
My concern is that although he reads at home, surely just because he has reached a certain level, they should still be spending time at school to work on his targets etc. It feels like perhaps they are concentrating on getting all the children to a set level and they spend the time working with the children who aren't there yet? What would you do? Mention this or not and in what way.
I saw his target book for reading a couple of weeks ago and he had only made one sub-level of progress so far this year - they tick off their own targets and the teacher then verifies and signs to say they are achieved - is this normal, both the progress made and the way they check their own targets? It concerns me that if he is reading with a teacher so infrequently that he won't have the opportunity to have his targets ticked off, so that he makes adequate progress this year.
It is the same across the board really, but don't want to bore you with an overload of information.
I guess I just would like some help with whether I should just ask if his teacher thinks he will make the 3 sub-levels of progress? Let them know I am concerned about the not reading for so long? Or just let her tell me how he is doing and trust that all will be ok. I don't want to be pushy or annoy the teacher, but also don't want to get to the end of the year and feel like he has been let down iyswim.
Thanks guys!