DH and I are not going to agree on school for DS

[witherhills]

I knew this was going to happen
How the hell are we going to decide?
We both had different type of schools, me a lovely CofE village school. He had a formal boys school with nuns and priests.

We have a choice between 2 schools, I really want the liberal independent one, he wants the formal rugby boys school

They are both fabulous schools, similar in a couple of ways, but so different in others

Any tips?

Oh. I'd just feel weird raising money from parents if they were already paying for the school. You'd assume that laptops and a new climbing frame were covered by fees!!

Personally I'd avoid the v active PTA. They can be quite cliquey and to me it speaks volumes of mums without much to do who are pouring themselves into something that's not really necessary. (But maybe it's a great PTA!)