Ds is 6.4, and is doing ok at school. He is pretty average (not the usual MN type, I know!), but as a summer born boy who is pretty immature, I am fine with that.
However, he seems to be stuck with reading. He is on Orange level on a phonics-based scheme, and has been since the second half of the summer term (although reading Stage 8 on ORT at home). I would say Orange was the right level for him atm, but he doesn't seem to be going forwards at all.
He appears to prefer sight reading to using phonics, and while he has good comprehension, is still not self-correcting when he makes mistakes. More worryingly, as he isn't using his phonic knowledge, he seems to be forgetting it. I tried him on a few sounds recently (ear, ee, ph etc) and he couldn't tell me their sounds, although he can read tricky words with them in if he recognises the word.
I mentioned this to his teacher, who said that his phonics were fine, and he just needs to practice. We read together about 4 times a week (but I only have non-phonic ORT at home, and he only gets one phonic book a week from school), and he does guided reading once every 3 weeks at school. I think he needs to go backwards before he can forwards iyswim, but how to do it? He bristles at the idea of doing the phonic sounds and actions, as he sees it as babyish. He is fine with single sounds, and the obvious sh, th type sounds, but really does seem lost on the more complicated/less frequent ones.
So, how to heklp him at home if school won't do any work with him on phonics there? They ran two ELS groups last year and I asked if he could be included but they said he didn't need it...