The main reason for the endless disagreements/debates about how best to teach children to read and write English is because of English spelling. If u want to know more about this, look at my EnglishSpellingProblems blog. (It?s against MN rules to give links to your own stuff.)
But if u look at just the 100 most used English words, or numbers 1-10 or the days of the week, u can see that many words do not have entirely phonic spellings.
59 out of the 100 are easily decodable:
a, and, as, at, had, has, that, an, back, can,
in, is, it, if, did, him, his, with, big, little, this, will, first,
get, them, then, well, went, her
not, on, from, off, so, go, no, or, for,
but, much, must, up, just,
been, here, see, came, made, make, I, like,
our, out, about,
new, over, old, they, their.
The other 41 are much TRICKIER:
hE, oF, thE, tO, wAS,
All, bE, OnE, sAId, wE, yOU, bY, mY, cAll, cOmE, cOUld, dO, dOWn, intO, lOOk, mE, nOW, Only, Other, rIGTt, shE, sOmE, thErE, tWO, wHen, wAnt, wHAt, wHErE, wHich, wHO, your
arE, havE, beforE, morE, werE.
(he, of, the, to, was, all, be, one, said, we, you, by, my, call, come, could, do, down, into, look, me, now, only, other, rigtt, she, some, there, two, when, want, what, where, which, who, your
are, have, before, more, were)
It does not matter a jot how children learn to read, as long as they become fluent fairly quickly.
Nothing puts children off reading more than having to spend a long time learning to do so. Any parent who has a child who is keen to learn, and is able to help him or her learn quickly and painlessly, should go for it, using the method which works best for them.
And regardless by what means children learn to read, they all have to use phonics for learning to write, although with inconsistencies like ?men ? mAny, bed ? sAId, end ? frIEnd?, even that needs more than just phonics, in the sense of simple linking of sounds to letters.
Masha Bell