Tgger - we are probably totally in agreement - but what makes you think the English school system pushes reading and writing faster than children can go?
How do you know teachers aren't very sensitive to what kids can do and provide them the opportunity to work at exactly that level?
MN gives you a very skewed picture of what happens in the classroom.
Does it sound like MRZ pushes her children beyond what they are capable of? (Although she does generally get her whole class reading by the end of reception)
Just because mums on MN compare which colour book their child is reading does not mean that this is either normal practice, or a failing with the school system.
Teachers (in the state system) will never ever tell parents how children are doing in comparison to the rest of the class. So really I don't think it's fair to say that the English system employs pressure or comparison.
A few very bad schools place pressure on kids in Y2. But those schools are very bad. Surely there are bad schools, heads and teachers in every country?
Certainly my DD is doing incredibly badly academically. Her reading and writing has not progressed at all as it should have. But she has never been placed under pressure. She's happy and confident. She thinks she's clever. And that's while going to 2 different schools - one which was dreadful for kids with SEN.
But we have had 3 more years of interventions than she would have had if she'd been at home till she was 7.
Honestly, in my particular case, if DD had started schooling at 7 instead of 4 she would have been a lot worse off.
And of course there are going to be people who say the opposite.
But the really, really great thing about the UK school system - is that it's optional. If you don't want your child to go to school at 4 - they don't have to. There is nothing stopping you from keeping them home till 7 or any other age.