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Why is DD aged 7 pretending to be less able than she is?

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MumblingRagDoll · 11/09/2011 15:20

Im not suggesting she's gifted...but she is DEFINATELY pretending to be less able.

She's always done this...she is in year 3...and she has just begun a new school but she dd this in her last school.

She writes quite neatly when she's messing around in her room...little pictures and notes...as soon as she has a bit of homework she writes, draws and colours like a baby and it can take more than an our to get her to complete a small and simple task and then it looks aas though it were done by a four year old. Sad

The school she was in was a small prep and she had lots of attention ...they just said she lacked concentration...she had a lot of homework there...a piece every night in addition to reading, here she is only having one piece plus reading and weekly spellings.

She's not so bad when it comes to reading and spelling pactice..but anything involving putting pen to paper which isn't her own ideaand it turns into a massive battles.

Her grades were 2bs and a 3 in science....she had a 2c for writing. but she CAN write better than she does at school...I see evidence al the time!

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MumblingRagDoll · 12/09/2011 17:21

I doubt it Insomnia her lat school was very academic and it was cool to be clever....her new school is top rated in all ways and the children are driven and bright....

Pip...I need to do that...I am so obsessed with getting it all "Right" that I cant bear DD to do anything wrong!

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snazaroo · 12/09/2011 17:39

i BET you correct her over her shoulder - I used to do this with d1 and it is a surefire way to put them off doing it as they end up thinking it has to be perfect.

do remember that she is only 7 and the most important thing at this stage is to get into a routine of enjoying school and working independently, not demonstrating how bright she is Smile

MumblingRagDoll · 12/09/2011 19:49

Oh God I do snazeroo Blush I am terrible aren't I?? I WILL stop it now!

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MumblingRagDoll · 18/09/2011 20:20

Snazeroo THANK YOU! I did it and she was great....I told her we would be doing it differently and I expected her homerk t be done after tea and that she had 20 minutes to do it in....I told her I wouldn't be involved and she had to choose an activity from her sheet on her own ad then get on with it...AND SHE DID!!!! Shock

SHe also admitted she's been preteng to read her book more slowly than need be because she wanted to avoid her homework which she has to complete upon finishing each new book! She bsically has been reading her book in 30 minutes or so and then dragging it out all week by reading a couple of pages and pretending thats' all she manage!

I checked by asking her questoins and it was obvious the book had been read and retained. Hmm She obviously feels better that she wont' have pushy, nutty Mum breathing down her neck anymore!

Thank you!

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