DS is in P3 (Scotland) and in the bottom set. DD is in P5, in the top set, but she could really do with more challenging work.
I am strongly against setting by ability, especially in primary schools. A lot of countries do not set by ability, they just give extension work to the pupils that finish first.
I think that the teacher will always treat the top sets differently: higher expectations, different teaching style (asking for critical thinking, etc). There is quite a bit of research on this. See for ex. this link (hopefully I'll be able to insert this link):
?Ability? in primary mathematics education: patterns and implications
If the link doesn't work, the address is:
www.bsrlm.org.uk/IPs/ip31-1/BSRLM-IP-31-1-16.pdf
I asked my DS's teacher if I could know what the middle and top sets were doing in Maths (I'm a second. Maths teacher, but I'm not working at the moment, so I have the time to work with my son at home). The teacher said she prefers not to give me any work from the middle/top sets because she would need to explain it to my son first. Is the top set doing quadratic equations? They are 6 or 7 years old. What kind of work can it be? The 3 times table? Number bonds to 100? Is there only one way to teach/understand maths, and you need to be a primary school teacher to explain it properly?
I actually wrote the teacher a letter and thanked her for her time, and blah blah. I said not to worry about sending home any extra work. I also attached the article on "setting by ability" - maybe that will make her see my point of view.
I know, I'm being crazy and pushy, but if I don't give this extra attention to my son, how can the teacher do it, with 30 children in the class?
What do you think?