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How do you tell if your child is bored by their school work or just lazy?

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MumblingRagDoll · 19/06/2011 16:23

DD is 6...she's always been very articulate and naughty challenging. At school she took a year to settle in and baically wouldnt speak...but now aged 6 and coming to the end of year 2 she hascome on quite well.

Her teacher says she grasps certain concepts before others and easily understands abstract things....but she is slow to finish written work though she reads at an age of around 9 years....her handwriting isnt great but her spelling is excellent.

EVERY week she has 12 spellings....she is meant to write a sentence with each word in it...so 12 sentences....she HATES this....and I find that even before I ask her to do it, she knows how to spell all the words on the list...so I will say "Spell Eighteen" and she will say it.....she gets them all correct in this manner every week...I then ask her to write the sentences and it can take me 2 hours to cajole her...when she does it she fiishes it in a few minutes.

She has told me that she sometimes gets things wrng on purpose at school..when I ask why she cannot tell me.

As I said...she's very articulate and sometimes corrects my grammar but I don't kno why she's so difficult over her spellings. I have tried MANY ways to get her to do them includng telling the teacher she hates them...the teacher said "Dont make her do them then...have her do what she feels she can...I knoly want her to understand how to place each work within it's proper context...hence the sentences."

She already knows how to place most words in sentences.
Sorry it's long....is she bored or just a little horror?

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EllenJaneisnotmyname · 19/06/2011 18:00

Then I'd say she's finding it painful to do a lot. Ease off and start doing some fun wheelbarrows to get her shoulders strong. Make a game of flicking ping pong balls with index finger, then middle, then ring finger etc, playing with theraputty or thick playdough. All exercises our OT recommended for my DS whose fine motor skills were a little delayed. The computer thing was just to see if it was the thinking about sentences that bothered your DD or the actual writing. Grin

mrz · 19/06/2011 18:08

Fine Motor Skills
Things to remember:
Upright working surfaces promote fine motor skills. Examples of these are: vertical
chalkboards; easels for painting; flannel boards; lite bright; magnet boards (or
fridge); windows and mirrors; white boards, etc. Children can also make sticker
pictures; do rubber ink-stamping; use reuseable stickers to make pictures; complete
puzzles with thick knobs; use magna-doodle and etch-a-sketch as well. The benefits
for these include: having the child's wrist positioned to develop good thumb
movements; they help develop good fine motor muscles; the child is using the arm
and shoulder muscles.
Fine Motor Activities
Moulding and rolling play dough into balls - using the palms of the
hands facing each other and with fingers curled slightly towards the palm.
Rolling play dough into tiny balls (peas) using only the finger tips.
Using pegs or toothpicks to make designs in play dough.
Cutting play dough with a plastic knife or with a pizza wheel by holding
the implement in a diagonal volar grasp.
Tearing newspaper into strips and then crumpling them into balls. Use
to stuff scarecrow or other art creation.
Scrunching up 1 sheet of newspaper in one hand. This is a super
strength builder.
Using a plant sprayer to spray plants, (indoors, outdoors) to spray snow
(mix food colouring with water so that the snow can be painted), or melt
"monsters". (Draw monster pictures with markers and the colours will run
when sprayed.)
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Picking up objects using large tweezers such as those found in the
"Bedbugs" game. This can be adapted by picking up Cheerios, small cubes,
small marshmallows, pennies, etc., in counting games.
Shaking dice by cupping the hands together, forming an empty air space
between the palms.
Using small-sized screwdrivers like those found in an erector set.
Lacing and sewing activities such as stringing beads, Cheerios,
macaroni, etc.
Using eye droppers to "pick up" coloured water for colour mixing or
to make artistic designs on paper.
Rolling small balls out of tissue paper, then gluing the balls onto
construction paper to form pictures or designs.
Turning over cards, coins, checkers, or buttons, without bringing them to
the edge of the table.
Making pictures using stickers or self-sticking paper reinforcements.
Playing games with the "puppet fingers" -the thumb, index, and middle
fingers. At circle time have each child's puppet fingers tell about what
happened over the weekend, or use them in songs and finger plays.
Place a variety of forms (eg. blocks, felt, paper, string, yarn, cereal,
cotton) on outlines
Match shapes, colour, or pictures to a page and paste them within the
outlines
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Self-Care Skills
Buttoning
Lacing
Tying
Fastening Snaps
Zipping
Carrying
Using a screwdriver
Locking and unlocking a door
Winding a clock
Opening and closing jars
Rolling out dough or other simple cooking activities
Washing plastic dishes
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Sweeping the floor
Dressing
Scissor Activities
When scissors are held correctly, and when they fit a child's hand well, cutting
activities will exercise the very same muscles which are needed to manipulate a pencil
in a mature tripod grasp. The correct scissor position is with the thumb and middle
finger in the handles of the scissors, the index finger on the outside of the handle to
stabilize, with fingers four and five curled into the palm.
Cutting junk mail, particularly the kind of paper used in magazine
subscription cards.
Making fringe on the edge of a piece of construction paper.
Cutting play dough or clay with scissors.
Cutting straws or shredded paper.
Cutting
Use a thick black line to guide cutting the following:
A fringe from a piece of paper
Cut off corners of a piece of paper
Cut along curved lines
Cut lines with a variety of angles
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Cut figures with curves and angles
Sensory Activities
The following activities ought to be done frequently to increase postural muscle
strength and endurance. These activities also strengthen the child's awareness of
his/her hands.
Wheelbarrow walking, crab walking
Clapping games (loud/quiet, on knees together, etc.)
Catching (clapping) bubbles between hands
Pulling off pieces of thera-putty with individual fingers and thumb
Drawing in a tactile medium such as wet sand, salt, rice, or "goop".
Make "goop" by adding water to cornstarch until you have a mixture similar
in consistency to toothpaste. The "drag" of this mixture provides feedback to
the muscle and joint receptors, thus facilitating visual motor control.
Picking out small objects like pegs, beads, coins, etc., from a tray of salt,
sand, rice, or putty. Try it with eyes closed too. This helps develop sensory
awareness in the hands.
Midline Crossing
Establishment of hand dominance is still developing at this point. The following
activities will facilitate midline crossing:
Encourage reaching across the body for materials with each hand. It
may be necessary to engage the other hand in an activity to prevent
switching hands at midline.
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Refrain specifically from discouraging a child from using the left hand
for any activity. Allow for the natural development of hand dominance by
presenting activities at midline, and allowing the child to choose freely.
Start making the child aware of the left and right sides of his body
through spontaneous comments like, "kick the ball with your right leg." Play
imitation posture games like "Simon Says" with across the body movements.
When painting at easel, encourage the child to paint a continuous line
across the entire paper- also from diagonal to diagonal.

I also have a busy finger box basically one of those plastic fold out workboxes for craft with lots of compartments

  1. Pegs ?
You need pegs of different sizes, clothes pegs, small bulldog clips, stationery clips etc. Get the children to use one hand only at a time. I usually get them to peg about 10 pegs of different sizes onto the sides of a gift bag. They might put them on with their left hand and take them off with their right. They can also try squeezing the pegs between the first finger and thumb (on each hand) then the middle finger and thumb and so on.
  1. Elastic bands ?
Elastic gymnastics! ? Start by putting 2 elastic bands (the same size) around the thumb, first and middle fingers, ask the child to open and close the fingers. Then add another 2 elastic bands and so on. The more you have on, the harder it is to move your fingers. These exercises help to develop the muscles which make the web space when writing.
  1. Beads ?
Get beads of different sizes and thread. Ask the children to thread some beads onto their string. The smaller the hole obviously the harder it is to thread. Develops hand/eye coordination.
  1. Ball bearings and tweezers ?
Put the ball bearings in one little box and ask the child to try and pick one ball bearing up at a time with the tweezers and place in a second small box. If this is too tricky try using Hama beads and tweezers.
  1. Floam / Playdough ?
These products are great for squeezing and rolling which provides necessary sensory feedback and helps to develop hand strength. Ask the children to squeeze the dough and roll it with the palm of their hand.
  1. Doodle board ?
The Doodleboard is just a way of children practising handwriting patterns or letters without having to commit them to paper. Provide some patterns and shapes to copy.
  1. Gummed Shapes ?
Give the children a sheet of plain paper and ask them to make patterns or pictures with the gummed shapes. Just picking up on shape at a time, licking it and then sticking it down all help to develop hand/eye coordination and the pincer grip.
  1. Hama Beads ?
Hama beads are good for pincer grip and hand/eye coordination. The children have patterned sheets to copy and peg boards to put them on.
  1. Lacing cards ?
Also good for hand/eye coordination. Just give each child one card to lace.
  1. Bean bags ?
    Give a child 4-5 bean bags and place a container about 3 feet infront of them. Ask the child to try and get as many beanbags in the container as possible. (Hand/eye coordination)

  2. Chalk and blackboard ?
    If you can, try and wedge the blackboard between two tables and provide the child with a piece of chalk in each hand. Ask them to draw the same pattern with both hands at the same time on both sides of the board. This helps develop bilateral movement.
    Allow the children to draw patterns, shapes and letter shapes on the blackboard. The chalk gives sensory feedback and sound simultaneously.

  3. Stencils ?
    Children can use the stencils to make a picture. Helps develop pencil control and special awareness among other things.

  4. Feathers ?
    Ask the children to try and balance a feather on different parts of their body. This helps to develop balance and coordination.

  5. Handhugger pens ?
    Hand hugger pens are the triangular shaped pens. These help the children to establish a better pencil grip.

  6. Tissue paper strips ?
    Place the child?s palm (at the wrist) on the end of a strip of tissue paper. Ask them to only use their middle finger to get the paper to scrunch up under their hand.
    Repeat, but this time place the side of the child?s hand on one end of the tissue strip and ask them to only use their thumb to scrunch up the paper and bring it under their hand.
    These activities really help to develop the hand arch, web space and muscle tone of the hand.

  7. Stickers ?
    Children love stickers. Just peeling them off provides an opportunity to develop fine motor skills and hand/eye coordination.

  8. Peg boards ?
    These can be peg boards where the child has to place pegs in the holes, maybe copying patterns.
    They can be the boards with plastic pegs already on where they have to stretch elastic bands between them to make patterns.

MumblingRagDoll · 19/06/2011 18:11

But her fine motor skills are advanced! Not delayed.

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mrz · 19/06/2011 18:15

The ideas are to strengthen her upper body /shoulder girdle and wrist /fingers to make writing easier.

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 19/06/2011 18:22

What a great list of exercises, mrz! I'm copying them for further use.

MumblingRagDoll, these are improve strength. Your DD is already accurate, but it sounds like she could do with improving her strength and stamina for writing!

MumblingRagDoll · 19/06/2011 20:06

Right...she's probably like that because she's a tad lazy! She also is not too fond of PE!

She does however like Gym and I will send her back and work on herupper body strength....thanks so much!

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RoadArt · 19/06/2011 20:37

Great list Mrz!

Totally agree with getting their hands moving = because if you dont, then the refusal to write gets worse as they get older

Making shopping lists, contents, letters is a good way to start. Dont make anything formal. Crosswords could be another one

This describes one of my DC to a tee - extremely bright but refuses to hold a pen or write anything. Is now in Y6 and only just starting to resolve this issue. Been a battle all through school. Only recently she admitted it was because her arm hurts when she writes so that's why she doesnt.
(Hasnt been helped by teachers who have not encouraged her to write but that is another story)
Also reason why I allow computer programmes - but this has made the handwriting situation worse as well.

mrz · 19/06/2011 20:39

My son didn't write until Y6 and then very badly Hmm

RoadArt · 19/06/2011 20:48

Mrz - How is his writing now? and has there been a huge improvement since Y6?

We are just starting to see progress now with DC in Y6 but it has been a huge struggle

mrz · 19/06/2011 20:55

In Y7 the EP suggested he should word process everything Hmm. He can write but it is still spidery

IndigoBell · 20/06/2011 04:00

Far easier to suggest kids do all their work on a word processor than to actually teach them to write :(

And of course school can now claim not only is it govt policy for kids to use a pc when necessary - it's also been recommended by an EP.....

WowOoo · 20/06/2011 10:30

Indigo -I read that you thought typing was better at first.

I'm struggling with ds, but he's only in reception and I think it'll be one of things that gets much easier as they get older. He's already expressing a preference for PC related things.

Thankfully, he loves doodling and play dough or clay modelling. (a blooming mess but it keeps him happy and quiet)
Op, dough, clay and cookies are really good for hand and arm strength. Your dd could do her spellings in one giant biscuit sentence. ....And take all night. Confused

Elibean · 20/06/2011 12:37

Our Reception leader takes kids who are 'reluctant' writers out to the playground to swing from the monkey bars etc, to build upper body strength...and gives them exercises like mrz's to do...my friend's ds is one of those children, she says it has worked wonders for him.

Insomnia11 · 20/06/2011 13:12

I don't think anyone is lazy, I just think some people are more reluctant to do stuff that is not interesting to them but is expected of them by others.

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