My son was four in April, we live in the English/Welsh borders & have applied & been accepted at our first choice school in England. I went last week for a welcome tea party & was flabbergasted to be told that this year they would be implementing a two stage admission & my son would not be eligible to start until January (he falls outside the Sept admissions by four days).
Nobody had thought to tell me this previously. I (foolishly) assumed there was only a September admission as there is with all other local schools. I brought this up with the teacher afterwards & enquired if there was any flexibility but was told no, 'as everyone would want to do it & then there would only be one child left going up in Jan', she followed this up with 'these are very precious years, make the most of them'..........
At this point I started twitching.
DS is very confident, happy child who is dying to start school, pre-school & I are already teaching him how to read/write, he can do simple addition etc.
It's time for him to go.
I explained this to the head who smiled & nodded but I could see in her eyes I was on to a loser.
WTF am I to do?? Most of his friend have already started as they're all going to school in Wales where you start the term you turn four ( a little early in some cases I think), I can't send him to his old pre-school as they are already saying to me they can't do any more for him & he's ready to go (all his buddies have gone anyway so he'll be stuck with the two & three year olds).
I don't want to start a war with the school before DH even gets there.....
Also, the entire reception intake consists of 12 children so hardly a deluge....
May be hitting the independent sector sooner than anticipated.
Advice??