I too hate homework and tbh, we have't done any for about 4 weeks.
DD1 is 7 and in Y2 and like Oblomov said further upthread, we get reading practice every night, which is often a whole book. Have no problems with this, but because she is quite a good reader, the books are long and boring for her to read and me to listen to.
On top of that is numeracy (about 20 questions), literacy (write about a subject and use various connectives and punctuation, but it has to be at least 1 A4 page long
) and science/geography/history (usually involving experiments at home). Then there are the obligatory spellings every week... It's such a long process. DD1 hates it, we end up arguing because she won't do it/can't do it/hates homework etc etc.
On top of all that, I have 2yo DS and 11 month old DD2 to sort out. DH works until way past the kids bedtime every night and I'm struggling to physically fit it all in (with bath, bedtime, stories etc).
She gets given homework on a Monday night to be returned on Thursday. Sounds fab because they've got three nights to get it all done but then DD1 goes to Brownies now on a Tuesday so effectively only has 2 nights to get it done.
I refuse to let her drop Brownies because she enjoys it, she is making new friends and she is learning new skills all the time. I refuse to shift her bed time from 8 which it currently is, to anything later. We already shifted it by an hour to accomodate the other children having tea and going to bed.
If it was set at the weekend, we might have more success at getting it in on time. We do reading practice every night but homework gets right on my nerves (and DD1's).
Added to all that (!) I'm finding that the homework they are getting hasn't been covered at school so I am acting as the teacher, trying to teach DD1 the basics before she can even do whichever random activity they have set up.
I am fully expecting to be pulled by the teacher for lack of homework, especially this close to SATS
.