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Would you say this is bullying?

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emkana · 30/03/2011 20:57

A girl joined dd's class from another class in the same year about a year ago. Initially dd and her were friendly, but over the last couple of months the girl has become increasingly unpleasant. Not a day seems to go by when she won't call dd dumb/an idiot/stupid, make fun of her in front of others, accuse dd of being horrible to her when dd has done nothing... I'm not sure how to handle it, so far I have always told dd to just ignore it, and dd is very good at that but is finding it harder as time goes on. The teachers love this girl. The parents are lovely but have no idea what their dd is doing I think.

They are in year five.

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emkana · 31/03/2011 14:34
Grin
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Lookandlearn · 31/03/2011 14:42

Have spent sooo long dealing with issues like this with year fives and sixes. I give them lots of time and take it all very seriously but pretty much refuse to take it at face value or take sides. It is wearing and horrible though and have also spent long meetings with parents about it too. Think you can be naive about who's nice and nasty in a situation and that's why I don't tend to judge. But will address behaviour from either "side" that is inappropriate. Ie I can't make you feel a certain way about each other but there are standards of behaviour and politeness expected in this class/school.

TheVisitor · 31/03/2011 14:44

Methinks Hully has been watching Armstrong & Miller. Grin

bruffin · 31/03/2011 14:57

My nieces had a problem with a girl like this, she was forever getting them in trouble, but was the teachers favorite so she was always believed. They had just changed schools and my dn had never ever been in trouble at their old school. She took it a step too far one day and got found out and the school finally found out what she was really like.

emkana · 31/03/2011 21:10

Talked to the teacher, she's planning to speak to both girls tomorrow.

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MigratingCoconuts · 31/03/2011 21:31

did the conversation go well?

BonzoDooDah · 31/03/2011 21:39

A good book to buy for your children is Bullies, Bigmouths and So-called Friends it helps not just with the obvious bullies but friends who aren't really. I found it a great thing and have bought it for pretty much all the kids I know and they agree.

emkana · 31/03/2011 22:34

The teacher was very open to hearing abou it. I did my best not to sound too biased mind.

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BonzoDooDah · 02/04/2011 17:34

Great - I hope she does something to help

emkana · 02/04/2011 19:08

Well the teacher didn't bother on Friday Sad

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