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Too much homework - Reception

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PigeonPie · 08/02/2011 09:49

DS1 is quite bright and is being set individual homework once a week - usually, he discusses a subject with the teacher or TA that he'd like to draw a picture about and then write about it too (last week it was robots making cars!). He also brings home a reading book which he reads before bed (best time for us) and if he's bored with that then we'll find something else to read.

However, the class is also set a homework weekly and while I don't want him to miss out on the work his friends are doing, I think that the amount he's doing is getting to be too much. He only has an hour to play before supper (we have to eat at 4.30 as they take sooo long to eat!) and I think that actually, play is as important as work. He hasn't done any of these so far, but this week's one is more about counting / numbers and I'm in a dilemma about whether to get him to do it.

I really want to support DS1's teacher as she wants to keep DS1 engaged and enthused about school, but I'm not sure that homework is the way to go.

I don't want to appear a refusnic, and I want him to keep exploring and enjoying his work, but not at the expense of play when he's only five.

Ideas and experiences of how to tackle this would be helpful.

Thank you.

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juuule · 08/02/2011 10:00

If he wants to do it, let him. If he doesn't, then don't make him do it and just tell the teacher that he was busy with something else and didn't want to do it and that you are quite happy with arragngement that at this age. The teacher will probably agree with you.

juuule · 08/02/2011 10:01

happy with this arrangement at this ageHmm

redskyatnight · 08/02/2011 10:01

Agree with PP. DD loves her Reception homework and demands to do it as soon as we get in the door. DS hated doing it at that age, so we supported the topics covered in "fun" ways. Helped that the school made it clear that all homework was optional.

PigeonPie · 08/02/2011 10:31

Thanks folks. I suppose I just don't want him to be seen as something different with the other children, but probably they don't notice anyway!

His teacher is very supportive.

I'll just keep on asking him if he wants to do it and get on with the writing he's been set.

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crazygracieuk · 08/02/2011 11:35

I'd be surprised if everyone does the homework (especially if it's a state school).

My youngest is in Reception and I know lots of parents who have never even read the reading books that they get.

crazygracieuk · 08/02/2011 11:35

I'd be surprised if everyone does the homework (especially if it's a state school).

My youngest is in Reception and I know lots of parents who have never even read the reading books that they get.

PaisleyLeaf · 08/02/2011 12:24

I don't think it'd do any harm to have an informal chat with the teacher about keeping him enthusiastic.

They might think they are catering for him with the extra homework, as some children love doing the work and would chose to write and draw in that playtime before tea.
Also, they might be thinking that, as he is bright, he whizzes through the class homework so is not actually spending much extra time on homework activities when he does his individual work.

You can say if you feel he's getting too much.

rickymummy · 08/02/2011 14:01

My eldest is in Year 2. Up until now, we have done reading and spellings in the evening, but set aside time for homework at the weekend, usually a Sunday morning when I am cooking lunch. He then knows that he has his afternoons/evenings free (he doesn't count reading, as he reads for fun anyway).

Can you do the class homework at a weekend, and let him chose to do the other homework for fun when he wants to?

HoorahHilda · 08/02/2011 14:55

We were sent homework once a week (weekend ), basically stuff that they had worked on during the previous week. From Reception .

We rarely did it . No problem at all with teacher . I just thought it was too much for a 5 year old . They need to play after school.

Now , in Year 2 they just focus on spellings and basic times tables plus reading , which is fine and all they need imo .

evolucy7 · 08/02/2011 14:59

You say that you don't want him to miss out on the work that the rest of his class are doing, so is this work that he needs to be doing so he understands what he needs to? If so I would have thought that he should be doing this before any extra, perhaps I have misunderstood something though Hmm

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