I am seeing the deputy head about my child being bullies today. What do I say, how do I handle it?

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I want to say that if my child is hit/hurt/has his things broken again I am going to the police but clearly can't say that so what do I say?

DH and I were both bullies and it only stopped when we both hit back. Mine was at secondary school, can't remember with dh but think his was too.

I am livid. Livid too that another mother has given out my phone number and had another one ring me and make threats.

bullied not bullies!

How did the meeting go fab?

Not too bad really. He looked shocked when I said we were thinking of taking them all out. He said he can't guarantee there won't be any more incidents but they have put in new procedures which are helping. They are aware of a issue with this year group and with certain children (other parents have complained) and are keeping a close eye on things. My dd has also been pushed around by older kids today so we mentioned that too. We will reassess in 2 weeks.

Thanks for asking .

Sounds good

Hopefully everything will settle down now & i bet your ds is proud of his mum. Give him lots of hugs & fingers crossed he will be ok from now on x

I am just so upset. I went into school today and other mothers from my youngests class were all glaring at my son and me. I have told my oldest son what to say if anyone says anything to him that is unkind and he knows what to do if anyone touches him.

Oh fab they sound horrible . Hold your head up high , you are sticking up for your dc's which is exactly what they would do in your situation.
They are just annoyed that you dared to tell the head how horrible their little darlings truly are .

It is the other mother's of kids in my youngest child who are glaring at me, not the mothers of the kids in trouble for bullying my oldest son. Confusing I know when I don't explain it properly.

Oh why would they be glaring ? do you think the older kids mums might have said something to them ?

No, the mother of a child that mine pushed over (has apologised) seemed to be chatting to them all yesterday. After she had threatened me. I could be being paranoid of course but it felt like that was what they were doing. It has all been blown out of all proportion yet my child has been really hurt and not enough imo has been done.