but am not sure what to do
It isn't ds being bullied. He is getting more and more frustrated and upset as two kids in his class one girl and one boy are getting teased called names and excluded.
Today he was very worried and wanted me to call the girls mum after school as she was very upset at lunchtime after something happened with some of the boys. I don't have their number but will pop into her work tomorrow
He says he does what he can, he refuses to get involved, he stands up for them when he can, he makes sure that teachers/"lunch misses" know if they are upset, he partners the boy in pe when necessary and partners the girl in class. But he says that he can't do much more without being very picked on himself.
He finds the feeling in the class all wrong and wants it fixed but doesn't think he can on his own as he has been trying and it isn't working - he isn't really friends with the boy or the girl he just thinks what is happening is wrong. (The boy and he are friendly to a point but the boy finds my ds a bit annoying) He says he cannot see what the girl does to be treated so badly. My ds gets on with all the class but isn't a "leader" in class where there are many very dominant personalities.
I have been aware for a while there is an issue. Am just not sure to approach the teacher, the head or to use the gossip network to pass the word back that there is an issue.
I really want to keep my DS out of it may be selfish but.... - I also think it needs to be fixed now before they go to secondary school (Yr6 now) am just not sure of the best way to approach the school without it seeming like a complaint or my ds being over dramatic or getting involved in something that doesn't concern him
What would you do?