So after the last farce IEP setting meeting it is time to review the IEP that I wrote that was enhanced by the HT to make it even more specific and more demanding on the TA's time tbh but she has a statement with 20 hours so not unfeasible.
Now I am pretty much certain that the IEP has been ignored certainly nothing has been mentioned in her home school diary, dd has no idea about or no knowledge of the stop/go card or feelings fan and there has been no sign of them on her desk or in her drawer.
Would I be unreasonable to ask for details of how dd has met the success criteria, which emotions have been worked on, in what circumstances has she indicated red with her card, which emotions on the feelings fan is she using consistently etc?
When the teacher and TA start floundering what then?