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Handwriting year 4 boy - how to help

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Gotabookaboutit · 14/11/2010 21:20

I knew my son was not overly keen on writing but as most homework is spellings and maths had not noticed how much he is struggling with handwriting. At parents evening I was told he does not finish tasks on time and I need to give him tasks to do within set time limits. I have started to do this an have instantly realised that is not lack of application or focus just incredibly slow painful and messy writing.

How can I help? he has a crap upright pencil grip - forms letters incorrectly and does not join up at all. I have always been against homework in primary school but now feel I have to really address this issue at home.

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mrz · 25/11/2010 10:29

Things to remember:

Upright working surfaces promote fine motor skills. Examples of these are: vertical chalkboards; easels for painting; flannel boards; lite bright; magnet boards (or fridge); windows and mirrors; white boards, etc. Children can also make sticker pictures; do rubber ink-stamping; use reuseable stickers to make pictures; complete puzzles with thick knobs; use magna-doodle and etch-a-sketch as well. The benefits for these include: having the child's wrist positioned to develop good thumb movements; they help develop good fine motor muscles; the child is using the arm and shoulder muscles.

Activities To Develop Handwriting Skills
There are significant prerequisites for printing skills that begin in infancy and continue to emerge through the preschool years. The following activities support and promote fine motor and visual motor development:
Body Stability
The joints of the body need to be stable before the hands can be free to focus on specific skilled fine motor tasks.
Wheelbarrow walking, crab walking, and wall push-ups.
Toys: Orbiter, silly putty, and monkey bars on the playground.

Ocular Motor Control
This refers to the ability of the eyes to work together to follow and hold an object in the line of vision as needed.
Use a flashlight against the ceiling. Have the child lie on his/her back or tummy and visually follow the moving light from left to right, to bottom, and diagonally.
Find hidden pictures in books. (There are special books for this.)
Maze activities.

Eye-hand Coordination
This involves accuracy in placement, direction, and spatial awareness.
Throw bean bags/kooshi balls into a hula hoop placed flat on the floor. Gradually increase the distance.
Play throw and catch with a ball . Start with a large ball and work toward a smaller ball. (Kooshi balls are easier to catch than a tennis ball.)
Practice hitting bowling pins with a ball. (You can purchase these games or make your own with pop bottles and a small ball.)
Play "Hit the Balloon" with a medium-sized balloon.

Moulding and rolling play dough into balls - using the palms of the hands facing each other and with fingers curled slightly towards the palm.
Rolling play dough into tiny balls (peas) using only the finger tips.
Using pegs or toothpicks to make designs in play dough.
Cutting play dough with a plastic knife or with a pizza wheel by holding the implement in a diagonal volar grasp.
Tearing newspaper into strips and then crumpling them into balls. Use to stuff scarecrow or other art creation.
Scrunching up 1 sheet of newspaper in one hand. This is a super strength builder.
Using a plant sprayer to spray plants, (indoors, outdoors) to spray snow (mix food colouring with water so that the snow can be painted), or melt "monsters". (Draw monster pictures with markers and the colours will run when sprayed.)
Picking up objects using large tweezers such as those found in the "Bedbugs" game. This can be adapted by picking up Cheerios, small cubes, small marshmallows, pennies, etc., in counting games.
Shaking dice by cupping the hands together, forming an empty air space between the palms.
Using small-sized screwdrivers like those found in an erector set.
Lacing and sewing activities such as stringing beads, Cheerios, macaroni, etc.
Using eye droppers to "pick up" coloured water for colour mixing or to make artistic designs on paper.
Rolling small balls out of tissue paper, then gluing the balls onto construction paper to form pictures or designs.
Turning over cards, coins, checkers, or buttons, without bringing them to the edge of the table.
Making pictures using stickers or self-sticking paper reinforcements.
Playing games with the "puppet fingers" -the thumb, index, and middle fingers. At circle time have each child's puppet fingers tell about what happened over the weekend, or use them in songs and finger plays.

Place a variety of forms (eg. blocks, felt, paper, string, yarn, cereal, cotton) on outlines
Match shapes, colour, or pictures to a page and paste them within the outlines

Self-Care Skills
Buttoning
Lacing
Tying
Fastening Snaps
Zipping
Carrying
Using a screwdriver
Locking and unlocking a door
Winding a clock
Opening and closing jars
Rolling out dough or other simple cooking activities
Washing plastic dishes
Sweeping the floor
Dressing

tinselthechaffinch · 25/11/2010 21:06

Yoro pens are good.

With Ds, I bought him a handwriting exercise book from Amazon and made him copy out a short exercise every day, watching him at first to make sure he was forming the letters correctly. Properly lined paper is important too.

This was in Y3 and he hadn't done any regular daily handwriting practise at school, apparently, which shocked me.

He is in Y4 now and is much more legible and coherent though still needs work.

It was the regularity of the handwriting exercises that made the difference IMO. 5 mins a day can see a huge improvement.

tinselthechaffinch · 25/11/2010 21:07

I have to say ds could do all of the avove list but his handwriting was still crap.

mrz · 27/11/2010 11:35

If he can do those things "correctly" then there isn't a physical reason for poor handwriting only bad application (which could be down to not being taught correctly to form letters or not having bad habits corrected)

tinselthechaffinch · 28/11/2010 09:01

Quite.

Gotabookaboutit · 05/12/2010 16:55

Thanks for that list MRZ have brought a slope for school and have already seen an improvement and also have got a referral for the OT through school. debating now which ''system'' to buy off Amazon for the new year - speed up looks good and there is a daily practice one but a bit of criticisem is that its very American

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Talkinpeace · 05/12/2010 17:07

On a simpler note
DS was just a stubborn little toad who worked out that if he wrote more slowly he got away with writing less
so I had a chat with the teacher
got him moved down a table for everything (mega ego hit) and agreed that any unfinished work came home each evening
three weeks later the "problem" was miraculously cured, writing had speeded up and he was back on top tables.

Stop medicalising everything.
Giving it a name will not make dear little timmy any more employable at 21
making timmy knuckle down will

Gotabookaboutit · 05/12/2010 17:15

Talkinpeace - sometimes things do have a ''medical'' or physical cause.
If you read my 1st few posts I was very reluctant to ''label'' my son - but it is obvious when he writes there is a mechanical problem when he writes and his letter formation is crap.

I am very much from the enabling school of parenting ie ''get on with it'' but we do have a family history of ASD, dyspraxia and dyslexia.

Besides should't you been counting beans lol

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Talkinpeace · 05/12/2010 17:21

book - am in another tab :-)

family history in such things means little - study epigenetics / genetics -
both my parents are severely dyslexic. I'm not. OH and I are left handed, kids are not.
Be very careful of putting your literacy stresses onto children to let them chill on what they should not.

Gotabookaboutit · 05/12/2010 17:53

There is actually lots of empirical evidence that there are genetic links in Autisum.

Google
Autism as a strongly genetic disorder: evidence from a British twin study -

There is also much evidence re dyslexia and dyspriaia

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Takver · 05/12/2010 18:45

gotabook, your initial post could easily have described my 8 y/o yr 4 dd.

She struggles with spelling (and is getting help at school for that), which partly masked the fact that she was also writing painfully slowly.

(Should say that school have experimented with getting her to work on computer, as part of the things they've tried with the spelling, and found that it didn't help.)

We've done the 5 minutes writing a day with her, using a workbook, and it has made an enormous difference, possibly because it takes the physical aspects of writing out of the context of school work, spelling etc. It hasn't been every day, and it was a real struggle to start with, but now she can very easily complete what is supposed to be a 5 minute practice sheet in 3 or 4 minutes.

Gotabookaboutit · 05/12/2010 19:01

Thanks Takver - I think there may be some physical probs but also just the fact that he hated school for the 1st 2years has not helped. Also I have never ''approved'' of homework for primary school age must am beginning to see that I have fallen short of the mark

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Takver · 05/12/2010 19:14

I can see it wouldn't help. DD has always liked school, but hated writing - I think because of the spelling issue - so has just had a flat 'I can't do it' attitude.

cakesaregood · 05/12/2010 20:11

Fascinated by all of this, my year 1 DS has mild hypotonia and struggles with writing. I've tried to avoid being nagging mum and have been waiting for school to correct the incorrect letter formations in his name (he's getting 'good' levels, but hasn't got 'Can write own name' ticked off yet!!)

Last week whilst writing Christmas cards, it became apparent that his teacher isn't 'encouraging' him in the way I expected. Two days of old fashioned handwriting practice (just 5 minutes, lots of positive reinforcement :) ) and this weekend's cards were spot on. Not neat, but letters all correctly formed. He is now pleased with himself.

Gotabook, don't be too hard on yourself for not 'doing' homework. See if you can find non-school-related writing tasks DS can do.

With DS we have the issue of he gets easily tired, so doesn't do anything for long - but he doesn't do anything for long, so continues to get tired.

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