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"It's only a kebab stick"!

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create · 18/10/2010 20:00

DS2, Yr3, has recently completed his first big junior school project, a model of the solar system which he took into school last week. He worked on it for 4 weeks, it was mostly his own work and he was very proud of it.

Anyway he came out of school very upset tonight and when we got home (across the road) told me that someone had broken his model. He'd used wooden skewers to attach the planets in a spiral to the sun and one of them has been snapped.

As we live so close to the school, we popped back with a spare skewer, his teacher was still in the class room and he repaired his model.

However, his teacher told him not to cry as it's "only a kebab stick" which it was, but not really, it was his model that he'd worked hard on that had been willfully broken. She seemed unconcerned about the damage.

I didn't challenge her at the time as DS was there and I do try and support teachers, but shouldn't she at least have acknowledged that it was a rotten thing for someone to have done?

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mrz · 18/10/2010 20:08

She was wrong

create · 18/10/2010 20:38

I know mrz. Is it too late for me to do anything about it now?

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Goblinchild · 18/10/2010 20:46

She phrased it very badly. She should have told him that it was a fantastic model and that only a kebab stick was broken and that it would be easy to repair. And that she'd find a safe place for it to be on display.
Is she normally not very good at being supportive?

mrz · 18/10/2010 20:48

She could be kicking herself for her insensitive remark personally if I were you I would just tell your son how clever he was to be able to fix it.

DandyDan · 19/10/2010 10:24

The teacher may have sounded unconcerned because she had already dealt with the issue earlier in the day when the damage occurred. Perhaps your son had been persistently upset and comforted already by the teacher, and congratulated on his model as well; but coming out of school and seeing you, re-awoke all his distress and whilst it was a new thing for you, it wasn't for the teacher.

And as proud as you should be of your son and his model, it was a kebab stick and was mendable thankfully.

FreudianSlippery · 19/10/2010 10:27

I'm sure she was trying to make light of it ie don't worry it was easily fixed - probably just didn't word it very well. Otherwise, it was mean.

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