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Shouty teacher - upset DD

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BumsOnSeats · 14/10/2010 13:56

DD is 8 and on Yr 4. She has really enjoyed school since reception and loved her teachers so far. She is academically bright but a bit scatty. This year for the first time she is less than keen on school, and she is clear it is not about the classwork.

The issue is that her teacher shouts. A lot, and loudly. The class is big and noisy, but no more so than any other and no more so than last year. However, the teacher just does not tolerate any noise and yells at the children many, many times a day. DD is not one of the noisy 'offenders' - but she takes the shouting personally and gets upset.

DD feels reluctant to put up her hand in class or query anything she does understand, and is feeling quite anxious, wondering when the next round of shouting will be. The teacher really, really yells, enough to stop quiet children in their tracks.

Yesterday, DD told me that in a change of tactic, the teacher didn't shout at them - she just wrote instructions on pieces of card and held them up, pushing them up close to children who weren't doing what she wanted. It sounded quite intimidating.

So, what to do? DD could do with toughening up, but I do think that this teacher doesn't have a great approach to class discipline. However, she has been at the school for years - is on the SMT - so obviously valued there. Parents whose children have had her before all agree she shouts, but I hate to see how my DD's confidence and happiness at school is being eroded Sad.

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BumsOnSeats · 14/10/2010 16:41

After school bump?

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coatgate · 14/10/2010 16:44

Not sure of the best way forward. My DD used to really enjoy a particular subject, but this year has a new teacher who is nasty and intolerant and DD now does not enjoy the subject. I intend to raise it,as diplomatically as possible, at Parents' Evening.

Could you not have a word with the head or a governor?

GetThatWalnutOutOfMyFace · 14/10/2010 17:02

We had a very shouty teacher at our old school - parents talked about that year as the year from hell. Quite a few reported that their kids the quiet ones suffered quite a bit. Parents approached the Head to complain about her and her approach was acknowledged but the Head couldn't/wouldn't do anything (I suspect she was as terrified as the kids) we didn't push it any further as we moved school, among other reasons to avoid that year, the teacher would have destroyed my very quiet child.

If you could I'd speak to the Head and then send an email confirming what you have talked about and agreed - just so you have it in writing.

ForMashGetSmash · 14/10/2010 17:05

If I were you I would voice my concerns to the Head teacher....I would also tell the HT that usually I would discuss something like this with the atual tcher but you feel that the nature of your DD's complaints indicate the teacher may take it personally.

The card thing sounds RIDICULOUS....if the woman cannot hold the attention of the class then she is in the wrong job. I used to run acting worksops and do theatre in education for sometimes massive audiences of children or teens...if they were chatting then I knew it was because I was not doing MY job well and holding their attention through fascination....

BumsOnSeats · 14/10/2010 17:36

Thanks for your replies...

Not sure about approaching Govs or HT yet - feel I should broach it with the teacher first out of respect.

I have to say I agree that constant shouting is suggesting that she is loosing the battle, and that something must be wrong if she is having to do that. Apparently she did the cardboard signs again today - she had them all prepared Hmm.

I am worried that my DD will have a rubbish year of this continues - she hates confrontation and will just retreat into herself. Such a shame as she has loved school till now.

It is parent's evening after half term. I will have to steel my courage to raise it. However, no matter how I do it, it will come across as a criticism of her teaching methods (cos it is!). Gulp.

The class is loud, but the teacher last year seemed to cope fine without all the shouting Hmm.

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BumsOnSeats · 14/10/2010 22:13

More from DD today. Her bf was shouted at for asking a friend to move because she was stood on her toe. The teacher just yelled because DD's bf had spoken when she was meant to be silent, and her bf responded by crying. The teacher just walked off Sad.

These are just 8 year olds ffs!

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