Dd 7 has autism and has settled really well into y3 and I really like her teacher and she seems to have a good grasp of her strengths and difficulties.
Dd has been getting really panicky about what she calls Big Writing so spoke to her teacher and she reassured me dd was doing well and had no reason to worry.
Still dd is panicky and finally today she mentioned the Jelly Babies that the teacher gives as a reward during Big Writing.
Dd doesn't eat sweets and so teacher would give dd a sticker but sensory issues means the smell of the sweets really upsets dd even if she isn't offered one and just seeing the packet sets her anxiety racing.
Will she think I am being OTT if I ask her to use mints or chocolate buttons that dd can tolerate even if she won't eat them? Should I offer to buy something?
Just to be clear I have no objection to the sweets per se and wouldn't object at all to dd eating them it's just she never has eaten them not that I don't allow them.