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My daughter has SEN's but is a teachers pet and acts like Hermionie Granger.

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mummyloveslucy · 26/09/2010 19:16

Hi,

My daugher has just gone in to year 1. She has some SEN's and we wern't sure how she'd cope with the change.
She is about 2 years behind developmentaly and has a speech disorder.
Since going into year 1, she's changed so much. She always wants to be first in, she takes a lot of pride in her work, she's always got her hand up to answer questions etc.
Every day I pick her up, the teacher says what a star she's been etc, or she has a sticker for good work.
She play acts a lot at home and when she plays schools and I have to be the teacher, she acts like Hermiony Granger. Grin
She always asks to read her new book that she's bought home from school, where as before I had to encourage her to read it, and at bed time she'll often say "lets do some maths". Shock
She is still struggeling to read simple words and is still working on her phonics as she dosn't recognise all the alphobet yet. I'd say she was making steddy progress, but it's the change in attitude I'm shocked by.
Why is she like this all of a sudden? Can a new teacher have that big an influence, or could it be the older children? They have mearged years 1 and 2.
Does this mean she's more likely to catch up with her peers or is it all a big act? I'm not sure what to make of it, it seems too good to be true. Smile

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Wanderingsheep · 26/09/2010 19:23

Good for her! Smile

Just make the most of it and encourage it. If you respond really positively then maybe she'll keep it up! It might be the fact that she likes a new teacher or it could be the fact that after a year she feels that now she has settled in, doesn't feel so new anymore and she can enjoy it!

I really hope it continues for her! Smile

Wanderingsheep · 26/09/2010 19:25

It may also be the fact that the teacher is giving her lots of praise and she is responding well to it. Children like to be told that they have done well. Positive reinforcement really helps them.

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edam · 26/09/2010 19:30

Sounds wonderful. Don't question it, just enjoy this stage with dd - and do say nice things to her teacher. Smile

mummyloveslucy · 26/09/2010 19:31

Thank you. Smile We do respond very positivly, she's always on cloud nine when she comes out of school.
Her last teacher was lovely, so sweet and caring. Her new teacher is very caring too but comes across as a bit stricter.
She's been at the nursery there since she was two. The reception was in the nursary building, so she's moved into the primary building in year 1. She's been spending time there all through reception to get them used to it eg, assembelies and P.E.

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Anenome · 26/09/2010 19:33

Oh that's lovely! I'm so glad to hear nice stories like this one...maybe it is part DD and part teacher...your daughter sounds like she won't let anything stop her... Grin

mummyloveslucy · 26/09/2010 19:35

I am so happy she's doing so well. I'm keeping everything crossed that she'll continue.
We have parents evening next week so I'll let her teacher know how happy and greatful we are. Smile

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mummyloveslucy · 26/09/2010 19:41

Yes she is determined. Even with her speech problems she'll chat to anyone, even if they don't have a clue what she's saying. She's quite happy to do show and tell in front of the whole class too. It dosn't seem to hold her back.

Her friend once said to her "I can't understand what on earth you're saying" I felt so sad for my DD but she just said "well listen harder then!" It was so funny. I was secretly thinking "go Lucy". Grin

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edam · 26/09/2010 22:44

sounds like a very smart little girl. Grin My best friend in reception was profoundly deaf. Didn't affect our friendship at all - as an adult I think communication must have been tricky but at the time it just didn't register as a problem. She was just my best friend. I was devastated when her parents took her away to a specialist school.

kissingfrogs · 26/09/2010 23:08

Same here!!! My daughter has also turned into Hermionie having started Yr1 (SEN hearing impaired with language disorder) and what a difference! I think it's probably the CHANGE (of environment/teacher) plus getting older and being 1 of the big girls now.
And yes! She bought home her first ever certificate for Doing Hard Work! (never had a single certificate during nursery & reception).
She has gone from hating school to loving school. It's brilliant!

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roadkillbunny · 27/09/2010 08:02

We are having a similar experience with dd who also has some mild sen and a speech problem, she has suddenly found her love for reading and wants to read for the first time, she has come on so much since starting Y1, a long way to go but she is really enjoying reading now, it is now longer like extracting teeth to get her to do her reading books at home! Grin
She has always loved school but we are now seeing the area when she has sen bloom, she has a very young fresh and exiting teacher who seems to have a knack of getting the best out of all the children, her teacher last year was lovely, experienced and incredible supportive, couldn't have gone through last year and the realisation that the speech issues had created more problems in other areas and her being identified as having sen without her support, it just seems dd was ready to move on and up Grin
(I also love that her teacher shares my excitement for the small stuff, like last week when I excitedly went to speak to her with the news dd had asked to read a book at home and had not only read it all the way through had done really well with little help, her teacher was as exited as I was)

Runoutofideas · 27/09/2010 09:44

I wonder if it is something to do with being old enough to "do" school properly? My dd is similar - although without the SENs. She tolerated going to school in reception, and was never hugely enthusiastic about it, but now bounces off merrily into year one. She's more keen to have friends to play and gets more invitations to friends' houses, so all is looking good. I'm so pleased it is working that way for other people too Grin

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