Sorry if this is a bit long but would appreciate everyone's thoughts.
DD2 is just 7 and has just finished Yr2, she is a happy, bright little girl who loves school and has lots of friends so I don't think there are any concerns socially.
However, she really struggles academically and has done really since Yr R. We have spoken to the school on a number of occasions and have always been told not to worry too much. She has had an IEP for a couple of terms and whilst her reading and writing and maths are improved, we are conscious that she is still behing where she should be.
Wehave just had the her report and sats results and are thoughts were confirmed as she got a 1a for reading and writing. From what I gather only 4% of girls were in this bracket so she is in the bottom 2 girls for KS1 (despite being told she was by no means at the bottom!.)
We have also been assured that her IEP will be picked up next year, but I guess the real issue is that I am losing confidence in the school, or maybe I expect too much.
Although she has the IEP, the targets she has are very limited and even if she achieves them they don't seem to update them more than once a term unless nagged. We had a meeting with the SENCO at the beginning of this term but she disappeared shortly after and doesn't appear to have been replaced.
DD has a notebook where teachers and parents make comments re reading which we dutifully write in. As at the middle of July an adult at school had not written in it since 26th May. I wrote to the school to complain and was told they had stopped bothering with writing in the books because it takes too much time. To make it worse she constantly forgets to change her reading book despite constant reminders from us. Her teacher says they want them to be independent which I support but that doesn't work when she daydreams! I have spoken to the school repeatedly about this over the last 2 years with little success.
I'm really starting to worry that when she moves to Yr3 in September she is just going to get further behind and don't know what to do next. We are seriously considering private school now but for a child who finds change really hard it will be a really big step fo her to move so don't want to take that decision lightly.
We have spoken to headteacher twice who seems to take in what you say but doesn't seem to really follow through. (and I know this is petty but all her communications are full of spelling and grammatical errors which doesn't make me feel any better about her!).
The school are really reluctant to consider dyslexia although I think she shows signs of this - should I be pushing them to assess her?
I'd really appreciate your thoughts............