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Moving our 7 year old to a new school but which one?

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JessicaMia · 12/07/2010 14:21

Can anyone in the West Wimbledon area give me some help?

Our child is being bullied at school and is lashing out. Unfortunately the school see our child as the protagonist rather than the victim. Our child is verbally dyspraxic and slowly improving with speech therapy but enough is enough...we desperately need to move him. What do you say to your child when they say, 'I don't like it when they pull me to the floor by my hair...it's a new thing but I'm used to being punched and kicked.'

We're looking for a local school that will understand his needs and not tolerate repetitive bullying. I realise bullying happens everywhere i.e. schools, colleges and the workplace but when I'm told that my child is exagerating, I think enough is enough.

The Head teacher is fed-up with us as parents and our main priority is to get our child into another school, he's become anxious and jumpy. Once he is safely out of the way we will then consider what to do about the problem school.

I would really appeciate some honest advise about local schools in the West Wimbledon area, their teaching standards and ethos, how they deal with bulling and special needs or your experiences! Help!

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frecklyspeckly · 12/07/2010 21:05

Hi Jessica,

First of all I apologise as I am not in your part of the country but i can identify with your experiences (plus me posting will boost you up the list).

We are too in the process of moving house to get our own ds (7) into a better area and a better school. fortunatley this is about to come to fruition over the summer hols and the school we have found is lovely with strong experienced staff and lots of positive teaching.

We have had many problems with friendships and misunderstandings of our ds. He too has speech problems, concentration problems, co-ordination problems, is impulsive and also has bags of kinetic energy which results in him fidgeting all the time. None of this was identified as pointing to dyspraxia by the school, in fact it was only after years of watching me struggle with him a family friend suggested dyspraxia. We will be working with the school to sort out how to move forward and tests to determine how we can best help him.

I don't regret for a moment my decision to move him. It is very hard I am sure to hear what your son has said about the bullying. Hope you get some answers soon.

animula · 12/07/2010 21:08

JessicaMae - could you get CAT enabled?

And which bit of Wimbledon is West Wimbledon?

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