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Nightmare around homework

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opalescent · 18/11/2024 18:23

Hi all, really hoping someone can empathise or advise. My son is in his first year of secondary school, and is incredibly hard work around homework. He absolutely hates it, and has never thought of himself as academic. His primary school expected minimal homework, so I always knew it was going to be a shock to the system. He is absolutely capable of the work he’s doing, but gets into such a state of anger and frustration that he simply can’t think it through logically.
I need to sit with him, or he really wouldn’t learn or absorb anything, and it’s becoming a massive flash point. Coupled with him being generally very hormonal, rude and stroppy, it’s just awful.

I just don’t know how to support him and get through this, and the next few years seems like it is going to be incredibly draining. I would appreciate any advice or empathy!

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parrotonmyshoulder · 18/11/2024 18:30

My child is similar. We have a very understanding school and I went low key on homework so long as class work was completed. Now in Y8 and has exams. Revision is a real challenge. I am breaking it down into simple chunks using ChatGPT to make fill the blanks or multiple choice worksheets.

Honeysuckle16 · 18/11/2024 19:18

You’re doing the right thing to sit with him. Teach him to work through the assignments, breaking it down into small chunks and getting it done. It’s not so much getting the homework done as supporting him in how to approach it.

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