Hi I'm not sure what to do I have read messages that my 13 year old daughter has sent today in a group of friends she has said to a number of people within the group chat that she will r**e them whilst laughing, she knows what it is I have explained to her what it is in the past and about being safe she also knows that it has happened to me in the past I'm really concerned that iv read this I really don't know what to do as she has repeatedly said this a couple of girls and boys in the chat today and these kids are all in year 7 and she is in year 9.
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Fiddlerdragon · 07/04/2024 17:30
If my year 7 was receiving rape threats from a year 9 in school I’d be contacting the school and parents, and possibly be phoning the police. I think that phone needs to be removed immediately. An apology given, in person, to the children she’s threatened. And a series of long chats about all of the aspects of how what she’s done is fucking unacceptable
LenaLamont · 07/04/2024 17:39
Bloody right!
I think I’d contact the school myself, if I were you, OP, because those Y7 children need support and to know that is not an OK message to receive. You’ll be fortunate is the parents haven’t contacted the authorities.
I’d definitely remove DD’s phone immediately, and access to any social media account. She clearly cannot be trusted to use them appropriately.
I’m sure this must be incredibly distressing for you. I can only imagine how appalled I’d be in your situation.
Fiddlerdragon · 07/04/2024 17:30
If my year 7 was receiving rape threats from a year 9 in school I’d be contacting the school and parents, and possibly be phoning the police. I think that phone needs to be removed immediately. An apology given, in person, to the children she’s threatened. And a series of long chats about all of the aspects of how what she’s done is fucking unacceptable
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